Slvt syndrome myths

[Last Man Standing]

Why dose it matter!! are you religious? You just think it matters. But it doesn't.

And what is the difference between a bf and a husband? More religious BS.

What havoc? Lots of fun, no strings attached sex? Because let me tell you, I don't want no strings.

Truth has nothing to do with religion -- and virginity has nothing to do with religion - truth is what it is! Truth existed before religion and virgins existed befor religion!!

If you don't see the havoc, then your eyes and mind are closed - you see it but do not want to acknowledge it!!

You can have fun with your hors - just don't love or marry them - and don't have a hor baby where I have to pay for it's upbringing!!! Damn near 50% of babies are bastards (illegitimate) in this country!!!

 

[wolf116]

Yeah I already figured that one out. No baby's or marriage for me.

 

[00Kevin]

While your anwser is both eloquent and preachy it still lacks that stroke of realizm that we call humanity. The perception that people won't change EVER over time is stupid. There are no aboslutes to life as in you can not rest absolutely assured that the person you've picked to be "the best" in your eyes isn't deceving you cleverly and convincingly or will not change over time empty your bank acount and leave you all together. Just in the same you cannot say with out a doubt that some one who's less then savory will not see the light and divote themselves to you utterly and ultimately be willing to lay down their live for just a bit of your love.

It's the nature of the world. There is no user manual nor is there a money back garuntee if your model turns out to be defective or a lemon. There is only hope and effort. In the end we are all characters in an on going book with no decernable plot with unforseen twist and no end.

"Real life is more bizzare than any story"

Are you saying that the old adage "once a hor always a hor" isn't true 99% of the time?

If so I couldn't disagree with you more.

As I said before in another post:

In more basic terms, sharing the gift of sex is like putting a piece of tape on another person's arm. The first bond is strong, and it hurts to remove it. Shift the tape to another person's arm and the bond will still work, but it will be easier to remove. Each time this is done, part of each person remains with the tape. Soon it is easy to remove because the residue from the various arms interferes with the tape's ability to stick. The same is true in relationships, where previous sexual experiences interfere with the ability to bond.

Why would you be willing to take the chance on a long term relationship/marriage with a woman who is a hor? I'm sorry but I just don't see the logic of it.

Would you invest all your money in a company that is run by a CEO with a history of bankruptcy? If not then why would you waste your heart on a girl with a history of horing? Why would you go about making investments that are based on hope and no discernable plan or evidence of success? Sure this ceo might change his ways over time, but why should i take the chance on him with my money if he isn't at least going to prove himself first?

Here is another example: If I gave you a bottle with a liquid in it and told you to drink it would you? An intelligent man would know that it is laced with poison (and will kill you 99% of the time), but only a wise man would know enough not to drink it. The hor is just like that bottle of poison.

Wisdom is something that many people today lack. They might have a high degree of education, but they are not good at making decisions. They let their selfish desires fog their vision and end up tripping over themselves in the chaotic manner that you describe.

People today don't think anymore and they are like sheep wandering aimlessly. A man of today would be very foolish if he thought he couldn't learn anything from the generations of those who lived 1000s of years ago.

 

[DanelMadr]

00Kevin you got it man

Society have changed. People have more time....more oportunities...they live in prosperity and we are have more freedom. We are spoiled. With freedom should go responsibility....most men dont have it and why can we hope for women to have it...they are not used to it.

Only the weak demand equality, 50/50 relationship etc. Healthy confident woman dont talk or play power games. The same goes for men. It is utopia to demand 50/50 and it signifies some issues.


The old saying goes "Woman should be lady in society and wh0re in bedroom"....that is about duality of sexual urges and morality. These days its pretty contrary....they are flashing boobs on parties and dont give up sex in bedroom )

Sad part is....all these qualities of Real Men are not needed any more and they are even laugh at.

Solution is to find quality woman....hmmm...you will need lot of luck. And Im not sure DJ skills will help....it could do more damge actually. For example girls are aware of C&F. And I think the whole reason why neg hits, c&f etc works is because you are then viewed as guy who can be dumped more easily(no regerets) than Mr. Leech.

 

[00Kevin]

00Kevin you got it man

Society have changed. People have more time....more oportunities...they live in prosperity and we are have more freedom. We are spoiled. With freedom should go responsibility....most men dont have it and why can we hope for women to have it...they are not used to it.

Only the weak demand equality, 50/50 relationship etc. Healthy confident woman dont talk or play power games. The same goes for men. It is utopia to demand 50/50 and it signifies some issues.


The old saying goes "Woman should be lady in society and wh0re in bedroom"....that is about duality of sexual urges and morality. These days its pretty contrary....they are flashing boobs on parties and dont give up sex in bedroom )

Sad part is....all these qualities of Real Men are not needed any more and they are even laugh at.

Solution is to find quality woman....hmmm...you will need lot of luck. And Im not sure DJ skills will help....it could do more damge actually. For example girls are aware of C&F. And I think the whole reason why neg hits, c&f etc works is because you are then viewed as guy who can be dumped more easily(no regerets) than Mr. Leech.

Let me explain a little more. The solution is always to find quality women. If you want a long term relationship then the definition of quality must be based on logic and reason. If you just want a girl to have sex with then the question of quality is a different one.

The DJ is a man who makes use of natural and sexual selection. He does not focus on one woman alone in his quest for love or p-ussy.

A woman can be aware of C&F and even neg hits, but that doesn't stop them from working on them. Women are not logical they just react and then react again. It is one big emotional rollercoaster for them that can be manipulated.

Before you can do any of that by nature you have to be selective. The moment you fail is the moment you will be depressed, put in the friends zone, or worse used as an emotional tampon.

You're correct when you say that the 50/50 relationship is a fantacy. If you have a woman who is trying to force that concept on you then she is keeping a list of wrongs and rights (which is contrary to any notion of love).