... Slvt or not??

[European-DJ]

This is ment for the guys who COULD see them self within a relationsship with a girl (not for the icemen out there).

- How many guys is your girl allowed to have slept with, before you label her as a slvt / refuses to go into a relationship with her???

Just curious ... let us say the girl is 19-22 yrs.

 

[typical]

This is ment for the guys who COULD see them self within a relationsship with a girl (not for the icemen out there).

- How many guys is your girl allowed to have slept with, before you label her as a slvt / refuses to go into a relationship with her???

Just curious ... let us say the girl is 19-22 yrs.

Who cares girls up to the age of 25 and even 30 want to go out have fun thats it after their looks decline they will find a beta male to settle down with and have kids.

Your 19 and should not be in a relationship AT ALL, you should be using the "Three F's" system. Which is "Flirt, ****, Forget".

Remember she has slept with other guys before you (unless she was a virgin) and will sleep with other guys after you so who cares if she's a slut or not. As long as your busting a nut in her its all good.

Just don't get attached or tied down or knock her up you have many many years ahead of you so stop worrying about what she is and worry about what you are and what you can become.

 

[Borknagar]

Who cares girls up to the age of 25 and even 30 want to go out have fun thats it after their looks decline they will find a beta male to settle down with and have kids.

Your 19 and should not be in a relationship AT ALL, you should be using the "Three F's" system. Which is "Flirt, ****, Forget".

Remember she has slept with other guys before you (unless she was a virgin) and will sleep with other guys after you so who cares if she's a slut or not. As long as your busting a nut in her its all good.

Just don't get attached or tied down or knock her up you have many many years ahead of you so stop worrying about what she is and worry about what you are and what you can become.

I got five years on you but I agree, he shouldn't even consider a real relationship till he's at least 30, maybe 35. I'm 32, and old enough to know better. And I just use the Fs, be it the 3 Fs or the 5 Fs. same difference.

 

[Strelok]

It doesnt matter how many guys she slep with, she is not taking anything away from you and if you care about her past you are insecure about your penis size just like the guys who own a gun.

/sarcasm mode off

Ok now unlike the other two poster I think you're not asking because you imagine a long term relation now but mostly cause at 19 and you're still inexperienced compared to the average 19yrs old girl who probably fvked the **** carousel and probably the **** train starting from the driver.

The point is there are 3 reasons to care about a woman sexual past:

1)Self defence because its proven that ex slvts make terrible gfs and are a danger to your happines, self confidence, relax and even freedom.

2)Territory, you simply dont want an used girl just like you dont buy an used car

3)Fear, different from insecurity in the shared meaning, you actually realize the relation is not symmetrical therefore you estimate you "cant do it" with damages to your self confidence for not being enough and for your reputation for her spreading rumors.

Now you identify the reason for your concern and find a solution accordingly.
The hardest one is the second however,not so much you can since its mostly a age/society related thing.

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Her having more partners = more experience.

more experience = better in bed (GENERALLY SPEAKING)

better in bed = better sex with me

better sex with me = good for me

good for me = something I like

Therefore, her having more partners, generally speaking, is something I like.

As long as she doesn't have any life-threatening STDs, I say a woman can't be slutty enough! Hell, I consider myself seasoned, having slept with as many women as I have, and it has made me a far better lover than I'd have been otherwise. I want the same in a long-term partner.

It's really easy to sleep with one new person every month if you're in a college environment. If you did that for 4 years (18-22) then you'd have slept with almost 50 people! When you break it down in terms of 'rates' like that, you can see how that number by the age of 25, assuming that a woman becomes sexually active around 17-18, isn't outrageous at all.

She doesn't have a bang a schoolbus full of football players in order to sleep with 20 guys in her early 20's. In fact, confident attractive women are also playing the 3F's until they start wanting to settle down.

 

[bigneil]

These days, almost every girl over age 30 has been with more than 20 guys (not that they'll admit it). "We don't count" is what they'll say.

You need to add: 30, 40, 50, 75.

 

[Zodiac]

This is ment for the guys who COULD see them self within a relationsship with a girl (not for the icemen out there).

- How many guys is your girl allowed to have slept with, before you label her as a slvt / refuses to go into a relationship with her???

Just curious ... let us say the girl is 19-22 yrs.

If they have slept with more guys then I've slept with girls I tend to worry a bit. Yet again the more partners they've been with the less I have to break her in besides a crack on the *** to get her started.

 

[Willis]

when i wonder how many guys a chick has slept with (not that i give a damm) I think....whats the point of me approaching her if im just gonna be number 859438574837 trying to fvck , i have no value, im nothing,
i even heard some women say "i always keep a backup dude"...
i dont wanna be a backup dude or anything else to some smut...

 

[Masculinity]

Her having more partners = more experience.

more experience = better in bed (GENERALLY SPEAKING)

better in bed = better sex with me

better sex with me = good for me

good for me = something I like

Therefore, her having more partners, generally speaking, is something I like.

As long as she doesn't have any life-threatening STDs, I say a woman can't be slutty enough! Hell, I consider myself seasoned, having slept with as many women as I have, and it has made me a far better lover than I'd have been otherwise. I want the same in a long-term partner.

It's really easy to sleep with one new person every month if you're in a college environment. If you did that for 4 years (18-22) then you'd have slept with almost 50 people! When you break it down in terms of 'rates' like that, you can see how that number by the age of 25, assuming that a woman becomes sexually active around 17-18, isn't outrageous at all.

She doesn't have a bang a schoolbus full of football players in order to sleep with 20 guys in her early 20's. In fact, confident attractive women are also playing the 3F's until they start wanting to settle down.

Having more sex partners = Higher probability of getting an STD

More STD's = Shorter life span

Shorter life span - Dying younger & probably spreading disease

Dying younger & spreading disease = Not good for me those I have sex with

Not good for me & infecting other people = something I dislike very much.

Getting involved with a woman who has been with many men is like buying a car with high mileage & without a history report. Would you buy a car knowing it has been used up and down and without any idea of where it has been (accident, on fire, a flood)? Of course you wouldn't. Why would you do get with a woman who has been many places & phucked many guys and postulate her for the most important position in your life: a potential partner.

Think about that.

 

[Zodiac]

Anyone that doesn't want to be the back up dude; hate to tell you but unless you are loaded, have a great job and a good house (Even then a majority of the time this doesn't matter) the girl most of the time thinks she is settling for you/using you as a place holder. Even if you do everything right there is a chance she will bleed you dry and move on to another victim or bang the bad boy ex bf the second he comes back into her life.

 

[Scars]

I generally try to avoid this question in conversation. I'd rather not know.

Girls lie about their sexual partner count anyway.

5-8 seems to the norm nowadays.

But realistically, it's probably more like 10-15. Girls don't count the ones they're ashamed (ONS's or men who aren't "high status" enough).

As far as I know, there's only one girl who has told me the truth. She's a stripper and still a very good friend of mine. Very cool, honest, and open about her sexuality. She told me she's been with 60+ men.

My last ex told me hers was 13 before she got with me, which slightly bothered me (because in my head I knew realistically there was more) and I used it against her in arguments a couple times, so I'd say anything over 10 is slvtty to me. But seriously, save yourself the headache and don't even ask. Sometimes it's better now to know.

-Scars

 

[DonGorgon]

This is ment for the guys who COULD see them self within a relationsship with a girl (not for the icemen out there).

- How many guys is your girl allowed to have slept with, before you label her as a slvt / refuses to go into a relationship with her???

Just curious ... let us say the girl is 19-22 yrs.

dude you will never know how many men she has Fed..

 

[Deadly_Ripped]

Having more sex partners = Higher probability of getting an STD

More STD's = Shorter life span

Shorter life span - Dying younger & probably spreading disease

Dying younger & spreading disease = Not good for me those I have sex with

Not good for me & infecting other people = something I dislike very much.

Getting involved with a woman who has been with many men is like buying a car with high mileage & without a history report. Would you buy a car knowing it has been used up and down and without any idea of where it has been (accident, on fire, a flood)? Of course you wouldn't. Why would you do get with a woman who has been many places & phucked many guys and postulate her for the most important position in your life: a potential partner.

Think about that.

I don't think that I said anything about whether or not I'd enter into a serious relationship with a woman who has a life-threatening or lifespan-reducing STD. I use a condom before both my partner and I get tested and therefore don't need to worry about the STDs that reduce lifespan or that drastically reduce one's quality of life.

Her sexual history is not a qualifier for me in terms of whether or not I consider her a 'keeper.' She must not have any of the mortal STDs (HIV, hepatitis, MRSA, etc), but beyond that, all other things are EITHER treatable OR minor and therefore are not a particular concern to me in terms of whether or not I'll spend a significant part of my life with a woman.

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

I could care less how many dudes a girl has slept with. Girls sleep around and will never tell the truth so why should you worry about it? Just make sure to use a condom and if you are serious with her make sure she and you have both gotten tested.