MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
She's a $lut alright. but you need to start dictating the action and never get angry...
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
sluts that dont put out
- Thread starter Fenderules
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
BlackJackal
Master Don Juan
If they dont put out, then dont put up.
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Wrong wrong wrong. Unless you know for a fact the b!tch is fixed do not creampie her. You may have just lost the next 18.9 years of your future.TheNastyPlayer said:
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
so anywa, last night was alright i guess. I went to a show and got drunk as hell. I do have her to thank for thath hahaha. She ditched her brother before she came and then got me wasted. Next thing i know she takes me downtown and we go to another show where she buys me dinner. Keep in mind at this time I am drunk as hell.
She doesnt make a lotta money but she did blow a good chunk on me, so i guess thats something to show i guess.
anyway we were both drunk as hell, and i didnt screw her, (but i whiskey **** so i prolly cound'nt anyway).
She followed me around for most of the night and wouldnt leave me alone. so there is high interst.
Regardless though i think im done with her. She can call me cause i dont need someone to buy me dinner. Im horny and if she wont put out, i'll find another chick that will.
She does have some hot friends that are bi so i thought maby i can go for one of them. At the same time it'll tell her im not waiting around
I just dont have the patience anymore, which is good cause im not some chicks toy
She doesnt make a lotta money but she did blow a good chunk on me, so i guess thats something to show i guess.
anyway we were both drunk as hell, and i didnt screw her, (but i whiskey **** so i prolly cound'nt anyway).
She followed me around for most of the night and wouldnt leave me alone. so there is high interst.
Regardless though i think im done with her. She can call me cause i dont need someone to buy me dinner. Im horny and if she wont put out, i'll find another chick that will.
She does have some hot friends that are bi so i thought maby i can go for one of them. At the same time it'll tell her im not waiting around
I just dont have the patience anymore, which is good cause im not some chicks toy
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah im totally confused cause i was playing a show the next day, and she showed up, and then didnt even watch us. She then took off right after.
She is obviously playing some sort of stupid game. So im done with that anyway. She can call me next time.
Im just confused because i'v been a big A-hole in general and i dunno if its cause i'v been 2 big of an a-hole. She spends money on me, i'v been pretty cheap towards her. She knows i wanna **** her so she is playing some stupid game. She claimed before she wanted to **** me but i dunno what the hell is going on.
im just gonna back off and clear my head.
She is obviously playing some sort of stupid game. So im done with that anyway. She can call me next time.
Im just confused because i'v been a big A-hole in general and i dunno if its cause i'v been 2 big of an a-hole. She spends money on me, i'v been pretty cheap towards her. She knows i wanna **** her so she is playing some stupid game. She claimed before she wanted to **** me but i dunno what the hell is going on.
im just gonna back off and clear my head.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Yeah, don't contact her or anything is the best. She just likes these stupid games. If she gets done playing games, she will get ahold of you and let you know. And, when she contacts you, I would tell her I am tired of the games. I'd tell her if she wants to see me to stop with the bs cause I am not playing that shiit.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yep thats the plan.
she has some hot friends that i want to nail as well, so i thought about using her for that.
she has some hot friends that i want to nail as well, so i thought about using her for that.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
o well i guess i can make a big laugh outta this. Somehow i managed to blow this up even thought it should have been easy as hell.
hahahah wutever im not to upset about it.
just a slut
hahahah wutever im not to upset about it.
just a slut
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
the only thing that bothers me is the fact that how big a tease she was.
when we'd make out she'd suck on my tounge and play with it, grind her hips on me and moan. arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrg.
when we'd make out she'd suck on my tounge and play with it, grind her hips on me and moan. arrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrg.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
i just dont like the disrepect
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
update:
she said next time bring a bunch of condoms.........and thats all i need.
she said next time bring a bunch of condoms.........and thats all i need.
You should have said:
"I would bring them, but I've already used all mine."
She's have probably said something like:
"What? Using one is not impressive" or "You don't need condoms to masturbate"
to which you could say:
"Do you want to get some pizza?"
"I would bring them, but I've already used all mine."
She's have probably said something like:
"What? Using one is not impressive" or "You don't need condoms to masturbate"
to which you could say:
"Do you want to get some pizza?"
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
i dont even care anymore. I told her i dont beat around the bush (figure and literally) I said im a 20 yr old guy that does not put up with **** teasing.
If she does not want to have fun, i'll find someone else
If she does not want to have fun, i'll find someone else
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
i guess i'v been pathetic, but at this point i could care less.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah anyway i think im done with this one for sure.
I ran into her at the bar and partied with her for a bit. She said she wants to **** me on tuesday. I was pretty stoned and overheard her saying some things about me to her friend. I dunno if they were trying to make it obvious for me to hear or wut. I dont really care. The words seemed insulting. Sounds like some stupid game. In my gut i have a negative feeling so i think im done.
I ran into her at the bar and partied with her for a bit. She said she wants to **** me on tuesday. I was pretty stoned and overheard her saying some things about me to her friend. I dunno if they were trying to make it obvious for me to hear or wut. I dont really care. The words seemed insulting. Sounds like some stupid game. In my gut i have a negative feeling so i think im done.
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
lol
Fenderules
Master Don Juan
yeah i apologize for this pathetic thread
dap
Senior Don Juan
"next time im out there if she does not f'uck me then im done"
You need to f'uck her, dont wait for her to f'uck you. (Of course it needs to be consensual, but you need to take the lead).
You need to f'uck her, dont wait for her to f'uck you. (Of course it needs to be consensual, but you need to take the lead).
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.