"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Sluts: Love them or hate them?

Swoop

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I was sitting at a restaurant late at night. Two guys and two girls sat close to me at the next table. They apparently met at a club just a moment ago. The ladies were speaking so loud that you can hear everything clearly. They were sluts no doubt. All they talked about was big c0cks and oral sex. Those two men were excited to have found the sluts. One of the lady tells a story about her son. This kinda disgusted me as I place myself in the child's shoes seeing her mother so slutty. Both ladies were in their early 30s. Both are attractive. This incident made me think. If I was in one of the men's shoes, I would probably be looking forward to the sex that is assured. But at the same time, I felt disappointed that women can sleep around so easily. Where are the integrity?

Being out in the field, more and more I encounter these types of women. A girl would be kissing one guy, and the next moment go and kiss another guy. Unfortunately, I was one of the guy. Again, I get this conflicting feeling of joy and disgust. Like two self battling in my head. Nature against Mind. One wants to take the girl home and the other wants to reject her to find a quality women.

The only down side of a quality women is they are hard to find and even harder to catch, since they are very committed in their relationships.

So now you are left with the sluts. And you ask yourself, love them or hate them?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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spider_007

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ya, that is probably one of the bigest hypocritical things that we do as guys. We complain haw we arn't getting any, but when we run into a slut we start complaning haw she has no morals..... We incurage the gurls to put out, and then we condem & discard them once they do. Your question should be; "What the hell do we really want?" but i suppose that's another question for another thread



do I like sluts? I like all women. However i do think sluts are short term solution for a long term problem. We all desire sex, we all desire that "friendship" that comes with a relationship, we all need that "other" person we can talk to once in a while and completly trust them. And we all want to be able to be ourselfs (the MEN that we are) with that person, with out having to run somekind of game on them for the length of a relationship. If you ware to put a slut and a quality gurl in front of me, i'd choose the quality gurl. slut will always be there. (little too deep for ya:confused: sorry, i only had 2 hours of sleep:D )
 

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hate them.


Women are meant to be women, not c0ckhungry b!tches who are only out for themselves and will degrade themselves in public cause they get a rush from it. Now, im not saying putting out is necessarily bad at all, but being a dirty wh0re about it is.
 

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Man shags alot = Player

Woman shags alot = Slut

hmm.....

As for my opinion on sluts. Wont say no but at the same time i wont respect a slut
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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00Kevin

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once a slut always a slut.
 

JackPrescott

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Sluts are all right. Attention Wh0res are the maggot ridden slime on the bottom of a ghetto trash can filled with rotting meat, and "nuns" those 90% of the women out there, at the clubs and bars, who doll themselves up, only to want to go home alone, suck as well. "LJBF" women are right inbetween the AW and the nun. They offer some companionship and fun, but are worthless as far as sex goes. Thats why they pay for their own drinks and meals.

But sluts? Hell, I'll take a slut anyday over a worthless, flirts for fun Attention Wh0re. The funnest things to do with them, is remind them that other women are more attractive!
 

cave dweller

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Wal-mart

Hey,

Sluts do serve a purpose.......

First you need to run by Wal-mart and pick up a 36 pack of condoms.

The key is to remember that a slut is just that --a damnnn slut.

cave dweller
 

PRMoon

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Can't turn a hoe into a house wife, so don't try.

I love sluts...at least for one night, then they can go on their merry way.

If you want a girlfriend, the don't recrit sluts. If you want to get laid then sluts are the way to go. Me I go out looking for whatever. If I find a good girl, i get her number and call her later. If I find I slut, getting a number is optional and I hook up. Pretty basic IMO.
 

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Like them. To love or to hate is too much - it shows that you have some problem.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Skydiver43127

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I don't actually use the term "slut". In my observation in AFC-language "slut" is any single woman who sleeps with a guy who is not you.
 

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Originally posted by Skydiver43127
I don't actually use the term "slut". In my observation in AFC-language "slut" is any single woman who sleeps with a guy who is not you.
:crackup:

"slut" is girly AFC language
 
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