"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Slut, Princess, or both

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I think a lot of advice given here will cause a lot of pain, confusion, and distress. Not because the advice is either bad, or wrong, but that the advice is not really geared at the problem.

If I walk up to you on the street and said "excuse me give me directions please", what would you say, you would say "okay where do you want to go". This makes logical sense, but if I said "I want to go to the destination I need to go so now tell me the way please". It would be pointless to give directions because you have no clue to where I want to go.

Now ppl come here all the time and ask for advice, or even try to do things to get there lives together, but the thing is they never actually tell what they want from the girl, or know what they want from life before they try to changer theirs.

In order to get accurate advice you need to know what you want.
In order to effectively change your life you need to know what you want your life to be like.

Guys come here chasing sluts, but it clear they want a princess, and then get all kind of advice. Or they chase after a princess, when all they want is a slut and some meanless sex. The guy will then go out and take advice on how to charm a slut, and use it on a girl who is trying to be a princess, or vice verser.

If you dont even know what you want, that means you havent even accessed what type of woman she is. You wouldn't order a tank attack operation in the middle of the ocean. Sure those tactics may work on a ground fight, but they are useless at sea.

So guys needs to figure out "what do you want" from a girl, and out of life in general. When you do this you can get a clear outlook on the type of woman you are dealing with, and make a more detail accurate plan of moving.

Only when you know where you want to go, can you get accurate advice on how to get there.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Royal,

I really got to hand it to you on this post.

Every bit of advice here needs to be taken with a grain of salt and applied by a person in accordance to their end goal. Aint no point in showing up to a shootout with a switchblade especially if you know you what you are walking into.
 

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Originally posted by belividere
Aint no point in showing up to a shootout with a switchblade especially if you know you what you are walking into.
Laughing my behind off at this one-great analogy bro!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Yes Royal, you are correct.

Now you know why I mostly give advice from the pimp/hor perspective, because as an advisor I know my audience!!!!
 

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This post has reassured me to think twice, even thrice about what advice I need.

Try finding yourself before finding someone else. Right?
 
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