"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slowly getting back, but still a **** AFC

kkboy85

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Ok, you guy's remember me? If not well, to get straight to the point last year i used to be known as the ladies man in college (small international business college), i've slept a few girls there and grabbed their numbers.

But after months of non-practice, lazyiness i've lost my game altogether, i guess i was just "TOO CONFIDENT", i blamed myself that i cant get practice because i'm busy with work.

Well i joined here 2 months ago, 1st month i couldn't get myself back in but now i want to get myself back in and starting to get my motivation back together, i honestly the season is having an effect on me? i feel hornier now (spring).

Anyways the point is, yesterday i got a chance to see my alpha brother in action, his an alpha because every girl asked where he was and said hello to him, everyone is over him and i can see his strong key points. I want to transform myself like him, i was thinking of asking him for a hang out together, but he lives far far away, and 7 years older than i am.


Basically how do i get myself back into this game? I just dont know how i could start from scatch, my heart was pounding hard when i was at church yesterday, i felt shameful last time i went to church few months i felt confident and was a alpha myself yesterday i've experienced myself going to the back side and the girls i knew ignoring me.

>_< HELP ME... bootcamp seems like something that isn't worth doing, anyone tried that bootcamp?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ryanvalmont

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I feel the same way,6 months ago i rocked!....now i'm sucky and can't seem to get back to where i was ;(
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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You do not lose "skill." Being able to conversate and relate to girls in a genuine trait from experience alone. Do not think you can "have" it then "lose" it. Maybe it was all luck?
 

kkboy85

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Originally posted by Javelin44
You do not lose "skill." Being able to conversate and relate to girls in a genuine trait from experience alone. Do not think you can "have" it then "lose" it. Maybe it was all luck?
If you dont maintain your skill, your skill starts to diminish and eventually you lose it and hold onto a tiny part of it if lucky (which i do have a little left i guess.)

You can of course gain skills back 2nd time much easier from previous experience like all things SO IT WASN'T LUCK.


I'm going to get myself back in, i've ordered Doubleyourdating advanced program to get my kick started!!!

I want to get my inner self together first before doing any approaches, because inner self is very important obviously having a date right now will bost my self esteem quicker.
 
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