"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slowdance

Aquilo

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I was thinking about these nice slowdances you make just before the clubs are closing. And I was thinking how it´s been changed now from when you made the slowdances at the age of 12-16. At least for me, then it was like that the only cool way to make a slowdance with a girl was to have both your hands on a casual way on her ass, just having them there, but not really grabbing.
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Nowadays you hardly see anyone hold his hands on girls ass. And when you do, some people really notices. I usually do it with girls I already have secured for the evening and it´s not a chance that would blow it with, and that I really don´t care about what other people notices. But with girls i am still unsure off I don´t really dare to do, I´m afraid it will scare them off.

The thing I was wondering about is what a cool way to make a slowdance is. HOW would you dance with a girl, that you haven´t met before in a way that is not pushy but that will trigger her anyway?
And should it be changed with to when you dance with a girl that you already know, and your friends know ( that is, if you make a too risky move, it WOULD be embarrassing for you in the future)? How would you do your Kino?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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GloriouslyInsane

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The lower back(just before her ass cheeks begin) is a very sensitive spot for women.
 

Aquilo

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Thx for the tip.
I´m not just wondering about where to put your hands but the overall behaviour on dancing a slowdance. Some sweet tips?
 
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