slipstreamer83
Don Juan
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Hey guys, I´m preparing this cold approach, so I wanted to share it with you because maybe you can find it useful. I thought about doing something different after my last rejection in a club, and here it is.
First of all, the goal here is approaching, not getting the woman. If you approached and said hi, then "mission accomplished". I just want to make approaching women something natural. So the targets are 1.- Speaking with a woman you don´t know, and 2.- having fun by doing it.
First step: We are going to learn graphology. I bought a little book on it, I will finish it tomorrow or in 2 days time. After you read your book, you have to select the stuff that you are going to use; only get the concepts that you remember the best.
Second step: Practice. Practice with yourself, your family and friends so as to get some experience. This will help mainly in your first approaches.
Third step: Time to rock ´n´roll. Start approaching women in the street (not at bars and clubs). Think that you don´t want to get the woman, you just want to approach her and have a good time. Ask her if she has something written by her there. If she has it, then analyze it, have a normal conversation and try to # close (at this point it should be easy; you have been speaking with her and you have some rapport.)
If she doesn´t have anything written by her (which is very probable), then say "what a pity" or something like that. Then ask "Do you come by here often?" Regardless of her answer, you can tell her "I could see you one day to analyze your handwriting. You bring me something written by you and I can tell you some things about you while we take some coffee."
Bingo. You have a date.
Why this approach?
1.- After my negative experience in bars and clubs, I would like to give it a shot in a more natural environment.
2.- From my experience, many women don´t like to give you their number right away, even if they are interested (not here at least.) If they don´t have anything written by them in the moment you do your approach and you get a date without getting her number. Then in your first date you can ask for her number.
3.- From my experience, women like this kind of stuff. I have already tried palmistry in the past (with my girl friends) and they like it, but I consider it too strange for cold approaches (anyway, you can choose whatever you feel comfortable with.)
4.- Graphology is a tested and serious science. You can get to know things about her that maybe she wouldn´t tell you...
Get rejected?
It doesn´t matter, because getting the woman was not the target. The targets were, remember, approaching women and say "hi" and have fun by doing it. If you get rejected it means that you have accomplished your targets.
Maybe I´ll post the results of this method here. Let´s see if I can approach women without fear once and for all. I hope this method helps you, too.
First of all, the goal here is approaching, not getting the woman. If you approached and said hi, then "mission accomplished". I just want to make approaching women something natural. So the targets are 1.- Speaking with a woman you don´t know, and 2.- having fun by doing it.
First step: We are going to learn graphology. I bought a little book on it, I will finish it tomorrow or in 2 days time. After you read your book, you have to select the stuff that you are going to use; only get the concepts that you remember the best.
Second step: Practice. Practice with yourself, your family and friends so as to get some experience. This will help mainly in your first approaches.
Third step: Time to rock ´n´roll. Start approaching women in the street (not at bars and clubs). Think that you don´t want to get the woman, you just want to approach her and have a good time. Ask her if she has something written by her there. If she has it, then analyze it, have a normal conversation and try to # close (at this point it should be easy; you have been speaking with her and you have some rapport.)
If she doesn´t have anything written by her (which is very probable), then say "what a pity" or something like that. Then ask "Do you come by here often?" Regardless of her answer, you can tell her "I could see you one day to analyze your handwriting. You bring me something written by you and I can tell you some things about you while we take some coffee."
Bingo. You have a date.
Why this approach?
1.- After my negative experience in bars and clubs, I would like to give it a shot in a more natural environment.
2.- From my experience, many women don´t like to give you their number right away, even if they are interested (not here at least.) If they don´t have anything written by them in the moment you do your approach and you get a date without getting her number. Then in your first date you can ask for her number.
3.- From my experience, women like this kind of stuff. I have already tried palmistry in the past (with my girl friends) and they like it, but I consider it too strange for cold approaches (anyway, you can choose whatever you feel comfortable with.)
4.- Graphology is a tested and serious science. You can get to know things about her that maybe she wouldn´t tell you...
Get rejected?
It doesn´t matter, because getting the woman was not the target. The targets were, remember, approaching women and say "hi" and have fun by doing it. If you get rejected it means that you have accomplished your targets.
Maybe I´ll post the results of this method here. Let´s see if I can approach women without fear once and for all. I hope this method helps you, too.
