"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Dear Fellow DJs, DJ's in training and Sarges,
I need some more advice before I make this move. There is this girl in my class that a planning to ask out ( and eventually nail). However, she is crowded by a group of people, or never in my class. I know the methods, and not to over think(psyche out) blah blah blah. I was thinking of trying another method: should I just slip her my number, as in leave it on her desk, to acknowledge that I have some attraction and tell her who I am, or do it the traditional way, strike up a convo, ask if she single and then ask her out. Any ideas would appreciated. Bottoms Up! Cheers!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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sexy_kuta

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no man dont slip her ur number... in most of those cases they will NEVER call back.. 86 percent of the time..
girls will only phone u back if their interest level is SKY ROCKET>. which in ur case hers isnt.. this is what u do.

next time u see her with a crowd... slowly walk up be grab her arm lightly and pull her away and be like hey i gotta talk to u for a second...

she will be suprised, thinking. wtf is going on.

then u introduce urself, talk to her for a while. 2-5 min. depending how much time u got. make her laugh. then get her number.. dont ask for it. get it.

demand it.

this will show u that u are interested in her and u got balls to handle her.
if she doesnt give in.. move on simple is that
 
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sexy_kuta said:
no man dont slip her ur number... in most of those cases they will NEVER call back.. 86 percent of the time..
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true. But I'd say its more like 87 and a half percent of the time. :crackup:
 
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ValleyDJing said:
true. But I'd say its more like 87 and a half percent of the time. :crackup:
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umm...
:| you're a special kind of crazy...






...we need more ppl like you in here! :rockon:
 
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