"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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tomcat2007

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Dear Fellow DJs, DJ's in training and Sarges,
I need some more advice before I make this move. There is this girl in my class that a planning to ask out ( and eventually nail). However, she is crowded by a group of people, or never in my class. I know the methods, and not to over think(psyche out) blah blah blah. I was thinking of trying another method: should I just slip her my number, as in leave it on her desk, to acknowledge that I have some attraction and tell her who I am, or do it the traditional way, strike up a convo, ask if she single and then ask her out. Any ideas would appreciated. Bottoms Up! Cheers!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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sexy_kuta

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no man dont slip her ur number... in most of those cases they will NEVER call back.. 86 percent of the time..
girls will only phone u back if their interest level is SKY ROCKET>. which in ur case hers isnt.. this is what u do.

next time u see her with a crowd... slowly walk up be grab her arm lightly and pull her away and be like hey i gotta talk to u for a second...

she will be suprised, thinking. wtf is going on.

then u introduce urself, talk to her for a while. 2-5 min. depending how much time u got. make her laugh. then get her number.. dont ask for it. get it.

demand it.

this will show u that u are interested in her and u got balls to handle her.
if she doesnt give in.. move on simple is that
 
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sexy_kuta said:
no man dont slip her ur number... in most of those cases they will NEVER call back.. 86 percent of the time..
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true. But I'd say its more like 87 and a half percent of the time. :crackup:
 
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THE_ADDMAN

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ValleyDJing said:
true. But I'd say its more like 87 and a half percent of the time. :crackup:
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umm...
:| you're a special kind of crazy...






...we need more ppl like you in here! :rockon:
 
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