Slipped into betatude... quick refresher?

[mikeraw]

I've had a serious girlfriend for the past 3 years butI play around on the side whenever possible and especially with chicks I meet through online dating sites. However, most of these girls are usually targets of opportunity or a my age or slightly older... Last night, I got the number of this scorching hot waitress and I recognize that my game is very rusty.

QUESTION:

I need a crash course refresher on game. What are the top 3 sources you guys can recommend while I set up a date with this hottie? Everything from conversations to what to do with someone with no faky.

I remember the basics of activity dates, changing locations for that time distortion effect, etc... But I feel like a need more work.

Oh, and the reason I'm sweating this one so much is because she's 20 and I'm 31, so I NEED to bring my A game to get somewhere. It's not often that I have a chance with a 20 year old.

Thanks in advance for your input!

Mike

 

[OnTheWayUp]

Don't put her on a pedestal just because she is young and hot. Remember she's a human being with flaws like everybody else, and try and get her to qualify herself to you beyond her looks. If you do that you'll set yourself apart from the majority of guys, who just fawn over the first hottie who "gives them a chance."

For game, I would try:

http://rationalmale.wordpress.com/ for theory and psychology

http://www.solvemygirlproblems.com/ for practical (especially relationship) advice

Athol Kay's "Married Man Sex Life" blog (my work blocks the URL, google it) for advice specifically tailored to LTRs and marriages.

http://boldanddetermined.com/ for inner game

http://www.rooshvforum.com/ and SS (especially the archives here) for troubleshooting

The Sex God Method (find it as an ebook online) for everything physical

Best of luck.

 

[Zarky]

I would watch some films where there is an Alpha character. Often I find that my demeanor changes (at least for a time) when I watch somebody being the person I want to be.