Slip of the tongue

[unlucky11]

I have been doing a lot of self-reflecting lately, and realized that women take a lot of things you say in great consideration. Do women typically start WWII arguments based on a grudge they hold on you from what was said earlier? I think this has happened to me.

What are the worse things you could say to a woman whom is a close friend or in a relationship that would cause her to not forgive you? Would these sayings be the byproduct of being AFC?

Ex. calling her a slut. Or not classy? I know there are ways to handle women and create boundaries for respect, but what happens if you are mad and it slips out?

 

[Boilermaker]

I disagree.

ACTIONS are always louder than WORDS. What you do is much more important than what you say.

 

[jophil28]

I know there are ways to handle women and create boundaries for respect, but what happens if you are mad and it slips out?

Walking away from an histrionic woman is always preferable to standing there and insulting her ( even if she deserves it).

Women have an almost compulsive need to divert the focus of an argument onto any side issue that allows her to escape accountability.
They truly believe that they are always 'right' and that their 'feelings' are always valid. This leads to their laughable belief in their genders' moral rectitude.
Notwithstanding their universal desire to point out our faults, they are fiecely resistant to ever hearing about their own or accepting that they might actually have any.

To avoid accusations of 'fault' when you engage her in a heated argument, she will often lock onto your anger and label it as "the problem" .
This is a really neat trick. Instead of her being willing to hear your grievances she refers to her almighty feelings once again and accuses you of "upsetting me ."

I have always been amused by women's complaint about mens' reluctance to "communicate".
I have no idea about what that protest really means except to interpret it as just another mindless whine.

 

[DJDamage]

What are the worse things you could say to a woman whom is a close friend or in a relationship that would cause her to not forgive you? Would these sayings be the byproduct of being AFC?

Ex. calling her a slut. Or not classy? I know there are ways to handle women and create boundaries for respect, but what happens if you are mad and it slips out?

You can call a woman a slut and get away with it based on the kind of a relationship you have with her.

A high interest woman whom you are screwing on a regular basis and is used to your neg's and sense of humor will be much more forgiven (if used in a humor/sexual way) then any other scenerio where the relationship and her interest levels are less defined.

If a woman makes you mad enough that you lose control and you call her a slut and she is not willing to forgive, then its not the word which is the problem but rather the relationship itself.

 

[Scaramouche]

Dear Unlucky,
Never,but never use the word slut to a Woman even if referring to someone else......Probably insults a female Dingo anyway.

 

[Bluntmaster]

I have called women worse things than b!tch and slut, and they still came back. I called them that when I was really mad, not just playing around. They didn't care and came back.

It's when they didn't get what they wanted from me, that they left and used that as a reason.

It's just ammo they will use against you later.