"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Alrite well the same girl I talked about last time has either started to lose interest or is trying to play hard to get, either way I couldn't care less as I'm tired of waiting for her to figure out what she wants and gonna next her. But what I do know is that she is having boyfriend troubles and was upset for most of friday about it. The thing is she'll talk to most people about it, people that she's more distant from than she is to me, but refuse to tell me about it when I asked her (yes I know wasn't exactly the best thing to do). I'm just not really sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing, for future reference. :/
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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ok well in my, PERSONAL ,experience there is no real way of reading into this.She might not want to tell you cos she doesn't want you to tell her her boyfrien is a **** or she likes you and doesn't want to expose herself like that so yh in my experience there is no real way of reading too much into this
 

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Alright fair play, spose I'll just go with it then. No point trying to find anything out and risk over thinking it.
 
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