"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Plec07

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Alrite well the same girl I talked about last time has either started to lose interest or is trying to play hard to get, either way I couldn't care less as I'm tired of waiting for her to figure out what she wants and gonna next her. But what I do know is that she is having boyfriend troubles and was upset for most of friday about it. The thing is she'll talk to most people about it, people that she's more distant from than she is to me, but refuse to tell me about it when I asked her (yes I know wasn't exactly the best thing to do). I'm just not really sure if this is a good thing or a bad thing, for future reference. :/
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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ok well in my, PERSONAL ,experience there is no real way of reading into this.She might not want to tell you cos she doesn't want you to tell her her boyfrien is a **** or she likes you and doesn't want to expose herself like that so yh in my experience there is no real way of reading too much into this
 

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Alright fair play, spose I'll just go with it then. No point trying to find anything out and risk over thinking it.
 
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