"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Slight Freak out during hook up?

MtnMan

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I met a girl at the bars. Cute hb7, 24 years old. She was super flirty with me, but like b1tchy-hard type flirty. I am actually pretty good at dealing with that, I just kind of amplify and argue and give them $hit. I was pretty sure this girl was into me, so I just kept talking to her and giving her **** randomly throughout the night.

Ended up leaving with her somehow, and walking back to her house. I got a lot of "your not getting into my apartment" on the way. I just let that roll off my back. It was like she was running some kind of crazy push pull type game. At some point she was like "i am going to punch you" So I said, "you won't do it". So she punches me in the face (not a hard punch, but more than playing) WTF? I just ignored it completely and continued on. This chick was feisty as all hell, but boarderline too feisty. For whatever reason I always tend to egg girls like that on, and its hard to tell if they like me or hate me or both. I used the bathroom excuse (thank you Roosh!) to get into her place and ended up in her bed.

Things were going along nicely, clothes were off, and all of the sudden she freaks out and rolls away. I just let that roll off my back, start off slow and re-escalate. She freaks out again! I think even a tear or two were shed this time. I escalate again, but at this point i am afraid to actually try to fvck this girl. I hate to admit it but I did slip my c0ck in a couple times sans condom and she stopped me. Funny thing is, I had a condom in my pants, but after the freakouts I couldn't bring myself to actually get the condom and do the deed, maybe a bolder man would have, but it messed with my dominate frame having her freak out like that. I just stayed with fingering her which she was getting really into. I was giving some serious g-spot play but she kept stopping me as she was getting close to cumming. Maybe she never experienced a squirt before?

At some point I just kind of gave up, and fell asleep cuddling her. We fooled around again in the morning and she was like a completely different girl. Her eyes were not firey anymore, they were kind. She was basically a sweet heart, and we hung out in bed for like 3 hours this morning.

She claimed that she gets manic when she drinks and her friends even gave her a nickname for her drunken alter ego. We joked about it openly this morning, we even joked about me sneaking my c0ck in sans condom.

Kind of a strange experience, kind of wish I got the bang, but maybe it was for the best considering her hardcore LMR. We exchanged numbers this morning, not sure if its worth attempting again or not.

Send her a random text with some callback humor from this morning, got a quick positive response. Best to leave this kind of girl alone, or attempt to meet her again and try for the bang again?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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asa_don

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check your d!ck for herpes, you guys who don't use rubbers are crazy, this chick sounds crazy too, punching you and crying, not good! she could accuse you of something since she was freaking out, better to let go if she doesn't remember.
 

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Run for the hills.
 

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I would of left after the first 2 freak outs , F that.
 

MtnMan

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im probably too thirsty. This was my first pull from a bar, was excited about it.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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crazyboy

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yeah you were too thirsty you should just said im out or left well enough alone. some girls or people in general are totally different animals when drunk. dont save her number she not going to response to you anyway just use it as a learning curve.
 

GotED?

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The only women who I have been with in the past that cried during SECKS for the first few times, were the ones who have been sexually abused to some bad degree in the past.

MAJOR RED FLAG

Unless you love to drown and swim in a sea of emotional drama, cut your losses (or winnings, how you look at it LOL...) before she turns crazy on you - if not already.

It seldom pays off being with a woman who has an open wound and has not healed of her past - you will just be used for 'projection' point of her ongoing issues to replay her disorders over and over onto you.

Be well.

Exodus
 

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Give her one date stone cold sober. But yeah, red flags.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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I see that drunken alter ego as one of those kinky girls that like B D S M. However, that **** shouldn't be done on the first few dates due to rape/trust issues.

She's still psycho, but if you're into that type of stuff, she may be worth a few more dates.
 

MtnMan

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i was very attracted to this girl, even though she is not anything amazing physically. Sounds gay, but her eyes had me from the start. Perhaps I could sense she is a freak, don't know. She wants to hang again, going to attempt a date during the week and try to asses the crazy before proceeding.
 

Don-Kong

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This is totally emotional baggage from her part which could potentially lead to a volcano for you.
I fell for a girl like this once, because her craziness was kinda seductive, she was different, interesting, a challenge! Long story short... It was an absolute nightmare, please think carefully about getting involved

There's a big difference between girls who are a challenge and make you curious about them vs those who are down-right batsheet.
 
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