"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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TheEdgeOf

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Alright guys. There's this girl at my college. I've never really liked her that much because I honestly think she's a bit of an A-hole. Anyways, I never really gamed her before because of that. But a couple weeks ago, I was listening to "Last Nite" by the strokes (I love that guys attitude in that song, he just doesn't give a sh*t about anything) while walking through the cafeteria, I noticed her sitting with some of her friends. So I walked by, and didn't bother saying hi or anything. Then I got this wonderfully evil idea in my head. I didn't like her and I really had nothing to loose, so I decided to try and experiment. I strode up to her confidently. she said something along the lines "Edge" (lol), which I ignored. I stopped, leaned on the table she sitting at, pushing some guy aside in the process and said to her;

"Maria, I think you're a b*tch and I never liked you"

Them bam, I turned around without letting her even speak, put my headphones back on and walked away.

She did not know what to say to me AT ALL, God it was funny. Anyways, over the last couple of weeks, she has been calling me over to her whenever she sees me. And I have constantly been playing great game around her. I made sure she knew I was the prize and was always ****y and funny. I never stayed too long and I never, not even for a second showed any weakness. Today, as she was walking by she called me and asked for a hug. A FVCKING HUG! This is the girl who I literally said she's a ***** to her face asking me for a hug. God damn I feel good about that right now lol. I mean, calling girls b*tches isn't really my style, but I think that this time, The value I displayed because of all that was FVCKING INSANE! I can't exactly show you how crazy it really was, but it was awesome to the max. She called me over and I spoke to only her, but my fvcking value in that place was so damn high that everyone she was with had stopped their conversations within 30 seconds of me arriving to listen to me speak.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Lol, wtf, doesn't anyone have any opinions on this. Damn 10 post limit.

Bump.
 

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I've got to say that back in the day, I would have never done this. I would been supplicating, asking her to like me, and wondering why she didn't. I would have been trying to please her and placating to get her to like me.

I personally like what you did. I see something to learn from it. You gained more out of the situation than you originally had. It helps add proof to theories that state that you have to come from a place where you have your own value and are not trying to obtain it from someone else.

Now that she knows what you think of her, she will work to gain your respect. She will change her attitude towards you.

I'm proud of you.

Make sure that you punish for bad and reward for good. Withdraw your attention from those that are bad to you or stand up for yourself if you have to and give to those who are good to you as a reward.
 
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