"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Slept with a girl, but now I want her friend

teagan

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Hey guys

I met this cut girl a few weeks ago. Long to short I ended up sleeping with her, a few times. Now, just recently I met her group of friends and there is one friend in particular that is absolutely gorgeous. We talked at the bar and danced and she gave me her number and said "Call me soon, Ill be waiting."

I was just wondering, what are the chances that I could ditch the girl I've slept with and get with the friend and how would I go about this. Oh, and I've made it clear to the girl I already slept with that I want nothing more than just sex and she was fine with that.

I've never been in this type of situation before...help would be great.

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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Smack

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Seems simple. You weren't in a relationship; it was just casual sex. You can do whatever you want with the friend, and even continue with the original girl as well.
 

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They won't get pissed off when they find out Im sleeping with both of them?
 

Smack

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If it's just a casual thing they shouldn't but chances are one of them will probably get a little bit pissed off. I don't see why this is a problem, though.
 

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If one of them gets pissed it's just gonna be a ****test and attention grab.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Good news! I porked the friend! And she knew I porked the other girl! She said she didn't care and the other girl is a *****. Haha, good times people, good times!
 

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If you feel nothing for both its time to escalate to the next level :up: and willing to risk losing both or winning BOTH (its for a higher cause, so you must :D, beside, both gave you IOIs so your chances are already pretty high)

Now you gotta try that style trick and score both at the same time...

Get both at your house, watch some nice videos in your room on your bed, tell them you experianced some massage in europe and how super it is with 2 persons at the same time, then tell the jealous girl to get on her stomach. Don't give her an option to say no, start massaging the jealous one first, tell the other one to do the same as you, then pull your shirt of and lay on your stomach, they'll start on you then...

then take the other girls shirt off and massage her, but more erotic. while doing that start making out with jealous one, turn the other girl around and make out with her. Now its undressing time for the jealous one :cool:, go from thighs, :up: rest is what you make of it

This technique works, and the more confident you sound the higher your chances, like approach, the more you do it, the better you'll get at it, and now is your time to do it!
 
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