sleeping with her...but no sex

[joeG]

hey fellas, i really like this site..i havent been on her for a long time. i would appricate anyones advice on the matter.

anyways heres my question: i have gone on about 7 dates with this girl..i totaly like her..anyways the last couple she has invited me to sleep with her... But heres the thing, we have our cloths on
she dosent make a move really she stratles me though..i dont make a move either...we make out though.
i know this sounds weird but if a girl wants to sleep in the same bed does that mean she wants sex? she hasnt asked me to be exclusive yet either...

 

[Docs]

She could be a warm and cuddly person??

Try proding a little...find her spots of weakness.

 

[superchristx]

yeah, she wants sex. Hopefully she doesn't think you're gay.... I know I do. It's YOUR job to get her clothes off, YOUR job to take her to the station.

Believe me, if you don't take the initiative with this woman another guy will step in and beat you to it. Then you'll come here and whine "but i was just about to make my move!!"

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

OMG This is freaking FUBAR man sleeping together but no hanky-panky?

She straddles you and you made out with her. Or vice versa she made out with you. I would be rising to the occasion if some girl straddles me.

Step 1: Check to see if you have been castrated..

Step 2: If not grab them balls and have her lick them.

Step 3: If you havent done anything from the above dont complain if you get beat to the punch.

Seriously dude she is throwing it at you and you keep missing them pitches.

 

[MackJr]

Unfortunately, it's like that. A lot of women will try to set up a "situation", but they're afraid of making a move. Whether it's fear of rejection or anti-slut defense, I don't know. Just start doing something (touching, playing, don't put it in right away, and see how she responds and go with that. If she offers resistance, get up for a minute, just be normal, and go back in to touching again unless you get an explicit 'no'.

If you do get a full out 'no', or 'take me home', you have to stop. Don't get yourself in trouble. However, you are expected to begin the action, she won't start it.

 

[Centaurion]

I'm starting to believe that you are an eunuch.

Put your hands down your pants, look around there, do you feel anything?

That's right. You got no balls!

WHAT THE **** DO YOU THINK SHE WANTS WHEN SHE 'INVITES' YOU TO SLEEP TOGETHER!!!???????????

God damnit, this is no Dawson's Creek episode. ****, be a man for once.

 

[DJDamage]

Originally posted by joeG
anyways the last couple she has invited me to sleep with her... But heres the thing, we have our cloths on
she dosent make a move really she stratles me though..i dont make a move either...we make out though.
i know this sounds weird but if a girl wants to sleep in the same bed does that mean she wants sex? she hasnt asked me to be exclusive yet either...

She invited you to "sleep" (SEX!!) because you didn't have the balls to take control and lead it. If a woman wants sex she is not going to tell you that right off the bat, she doesn't want to appear like an eager slut.

IT IS YOUR JOB TO LEAD HER TO BED AND MAKE A MOVE FOR SEX! she is probably lying there and thinking that either something is wrong with her or something is wrong with you (she couldn't possibly think you are that dense right??!!)

Make a move before its too late or she will be riding on top of guy who will. If she really wants to sleep(which doesn't make much sense) tell her you are not her teddy bear and go home to your own bed.

DjDamage

 

[superchristx]

DON'T criticize the poor kid! God I thought I was a little harsh but you guys are just a bunch of stupid ****ing as$holes!

I lost my virginity late, within the last year. I've come a loooong way since then but I know how this guy feels. We've hyped sex so heavily in our culture, as being such a big dangerous deal that certain guys are afraid to step into that world. "Hey, I was bad at softball, what if I'm bad at this?"

Anyway, JoeG, rub your hands all over her. Constantly push for the next base, remove articles of clothing, if she is straddling you that means $$, you are golden. Just do what comes natural, don't eat her out, don't delay, just fvck her. Before you know it you'll be an expert

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

hahaha this $hit is better than watching tv... The dawson's creek referrence was nice... I think this should be put in ' Come on's that were missed ' in the archives like on the top.

 

[DonMEgaHoss]

hahaha this $hit is better than watching tv... The dawson's creek referrence was nice... I think this should be put in ' Come on's that were missed ' in the archives like on the top.

Yeah when your making out you SUPPOSE to esclate it to sex you dummie! what did you do just kiss each other without feeling each other up? You must not want that Pu$$y bad enough.

Thats a major rule.... not even a rule should be common sense you keep going until she says no and means it.

Start kissing... Use hands to put on the girls body. Let them have free roam as you kiss. Stick them in her pants and up her shirt and she will most likely do the same to you.

 

[joeG]

thanks fellas for the "kind" words...i guess i needed them

i guess i cant tell how much the girl likes me...i didnt know if i should push into sex that fast...ive slept in the same bed with her like 3 times now--i was starting to feel like i better make a move.

i have had to flake on this girl 3 times this week...alot of stuff has been going on...
whats everyones experence with breaking dates with girls? does that screw everything up?
as of yet she hasnt told me she even likes me...although she text mesg. me about every two days to see what im doing that night..

i know i sound like a moron...but i really like this girl...im all ears for advice.

 

[philly_95]

It sounds like you might be a virgin joeG

If you are just tell her, you''ll have a better chance in getting in her pants if that is what you want.

If you aren't then what are you waiting for? go hit it....

 

[Aquatico]

Originally posted by joeG
thanks fellas for the "kind" words...i guess i needed them

i guess i cant tell how much the girl likes me...i didnt know if i should push into sex that fast...ive slept in the same bed with her like 3 times now--i was starting to feel like i better make a move.

i have had to flake on this girl 3 times this week...alot of stuff has been going on...
whats everyones experence with breaking dates with girls? does that screw everything up?
as of yet she hasnt told me she even likes me...although she text mesg. me about every two days to see what im doing that night..

i know i sound like a moron...but i really like this girl...im all ears for advice.

Fvck her right now. She's invited you to sleep with her three times already, if you don't do something quick she's gonna lose patience.

I sugest the next time she sets a date, you go through with it, and find your way back into that bed.

 

[donjuan87]

Next time you're making out in bed, get her so horny that she's begging for it.

 

[joeG]

im pretty much down to have sex with her...but at the same time all i really want is a girlfriend -to be honest..and i know that sounds like im such a p***y...

im just tring to guage her interest..but it seems like if i dont make a move the next time..ill seem like im either not into her or im gay.
the only good thing i think that may be ok - is that mabe i seem kinda diffrent. (i know that sounds retarted)
has anything like this happened to anyone?
i want to hook her---thats what im interested in.

 

[JonJack]

Originally posted by joeG
im pretty much down to have sex with her...but at the same time all i really want is a girlfriend -to be honest..and i know that sounds like im such a p***y...

im just tring to guage her interest..but it seems like if i dont make a move the next time..ill seem like im either not into her or im gay.
the only good thing i think that may be ok - is that mabe i seem kinda diffrent. (i know that sounds retarted)
has anything like this happened to anyone?
i want to hook her---thats what im interested in.

joeG, when you're in bed with your girl and things are getting hot and heavy, what would you like to do with her? Or what would you like to do to her?

When the two of you are out and about in town, what would you like to do with her? Or what would you like to do for her?

You're in the moment, do what you want to do and try not to bother about whether she'll approve or not. You've got to have your own desires and not try to apply her desires.

 

[Hunterchilla]

well actually my ex GF, one time when I was at her house asked me to sleep over, and not only that but she slept in her thong and we were planning on sharing the bed cuz there was only 1 bed.

So I was under the covers with her, and I started feeling on her ass and kissing on her neck, but then she was like " Uhh Andrew im not hooking up with you " lol and then I was shot down, so I decided I couldnt sleep in the same bed cuz i was horny so I went home. I dont know wtf that was about, but maybe your girl is doing the same thing.

 

[Shiftkey]

joeG, if you're reading this, and you haven't had sex with her yet:

Immediately get off the Internet NOW. Call her and invite her over, and fvck that woman!! What are you waiting for!?

 

[OzyBoy]

Man i wish i was seeing my girlfriend tonight. I would definately want to be getting into bed with her late tonight after doing something.

 

[Luscious]

Originally posted by joeG
hey fellas, i really like this site..i havent been on her for a long time. i would appricate anyones advice on the matter.

anyways heres my question: i have gone on about 7 dates with this girl..i totaly like her..anyways the last couple she has invited me to sleep with her... But heres the thing, we have our cloths on
she dosent make a move really she stratles me though..i dont make a move either...we make out though.
i know this sounds weird but if a girl wants to sleep in the same bed does that mean she wants sex? she hasnt asked me to be exclusive yet either...

Are you straight?

It is her job to show interest. It is your job to make a move.