"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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everybody says that in order to bulk, you should sleep at least 8 hours per night. i was wondering... does it mean ACTUALLY sleeping or even just lying on the bed, resting? because i usually go to bed at 11:00 pm and wake up at 6:30, which is 7:30, but i actually start sleeping at midnight, which would reduce the amount of sleeping hours to 6:30.
i have to add that my mother has to wake me up in the morning and sometimes i start to sleep again, against my will. anyway, during the day i'm never tired (even though when i take a bus in the afternoon, i often fall asleep).
do you think that i should go to bed earlier?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sleep means sleep. Try taking ZMA in the evening, that stuff is supposed to make you sleepy and aid in bulking.
 

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If you're not feeling tired during the day, and wake up rested with those 6:30, then you're good.

Try going to sleep earlier and see if you feel better the next day.
 

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Originally posted by Nex
If you're not feeling tired during the day, and wake up rested with those 6:30, then you're good.

Try going to sleep earlier and see if you feel better the next day.
actually i wake up not rested at all in the morning... i stay tired and almost asleep for a hour, while preparing for school, then when i get to school i feel well. but when, in the afternoon, i take the bus to go to my lady's place, i always fall asleep for 20 minutes-half an hour... not a deep sleep, since i'm conscient, but in a sort of coma:)
 

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make sure you use the same routine before going to bed each night, say you go to bed at 10pm then make sure from around 8pm you repeat the acvtivities you did the previous night, then your body gets used your routine.and knows to go to sleep at 10.

If you keep changing its going to be morew difficult establishing sleep patterns.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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