"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Besides the obvious "tips" like eliminating lights or not exercising/eating right before bed, I'm interesting in what products or supplements you've used.

I am probably an insomniac because I find that if I don't use SOMETHING, natural or otherwise, I have a hard time falling asleep. I can toss and turn for 2+ hours, so I rotate between Diphenhydramine (Benadryl) and Melatonin. They're pretty effective and a one month supply of either can be had at Dollar Tree. But you build up a tolerance and the first one is a drug that isn't very good for you so I don't want to stay on it.

Some people swear by food (turkey), drink (warm milk) or root (Valerian) but none of those have done anything for me.

Oh, and I'm not a big smoker so I rarely "smoke" weed, but I have used marijuana edibles when traveling to places like Colorado and Amsterdam with great success. Doing this in Amsterdam cured a horrendous week-long jetlag in 2 nights. I wish Florida would get it together and legalize it. 2 mini cookies a night and I'd be out like a light.
 
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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Magnesium, among the many great thing it does there is relaxing and granting a deeper sleep.

Someone uses ZMA (zinc-magnesium-vit6) but in my case it does the opposite effects and keeps me awake.

Also eating carbs before bed as long as its a reasonable amount will help due to chemistry of the brain (serotonin related).
 

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try melotonin?
 

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Sleep meds that contain Doxylamine. NOT Diphenhydramine.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Besides the obvious "tips" like eliminating lights or not exercising/eating right before bed, I'm interesting in what products or supplements you've used.

I am probably an insomniac because I find that if I don't use SOMETHING, natural or otherwise, I have a hard time falling asleep. I can toss and turn for 2+ hours, so I rotate between Diphenhydramine (Benadryl) and Melatonin. They're pretty effective and a one month supply of either can be had at Dollar Tree. But you build up a tolerance and the first one is a drug that isn't very good for you so I don't want to stay on it.

Some people swear by food (turkey), drink (warm milk) or root (Valerian) but none of those have done anything for me.

Oh, and I'm not a big smoker so I rarely "smoke" weed, but I have used marijuana edibles when traveling to places like Colorado and Amsterdam with great success. Doing this in Amsterdam cured a horrendous week-long jetlag in 2 nights. I wish Florida would get it together and legalize it. 2 mini cookies a night and I'd be out like a light.
Have you tried adding lemongrass to your favorite tea every morning? You should try this very beneficial ingredient.
It is good for aches, inflammation and a good sedative. My GP recommended this as my herbal drink tea.
Lemongrass is an essential herb in many dishes. It's famous for its scent. Not only it is being used as a spice but also as a natural herbal medicine. It is good for your nervous system too, which can help you with your insomnia status.
Check out this site for more information https://wikihomenutrition.com/lemongrass-health-benefits/. In the article, it divided into sections lemongrass's health benefits.
You should have a habit of checking every products which you consume to see whether it suits you or not. Nice to share with you.
 

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Magnesium. Helps with anxiety and induces deeper sleep.
 

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Eating these three together for dinner makes me sleepy: turkey, oatmeal (steel cut or old fashioned), and hummus. zzzzzzzzzzzzZZZZZZzzzzzzzzzzz
 

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Oatmeal is great, spray yourself with magnesium oil let it dry on you for 20 minutes and then take a shower to clean it off. Sleep guaranteed.

Me personally, I have trouble waking up after a good workout regeneration during the night + magnesium treatment.
 

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If I were you, I'd post this question on the special health discussion forum like health-speak.com . It is quite new yet covers many common health issues including insomnia. Good Night And Sweet Dreams:)
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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