"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Keasbey Nights

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I have this wierd problem with my sleep patterns. Everyday when I come home from school to about 7 I am exausted. I usually pass out and sleep for at least a few hours everyday after school. Since I sleep during the day. I am not tired at night.

The obvious solution is to stay up and go to bed early, but when I do that, at about 8 I am wide awake until about 12. I want more sleep but I can not fall asleep between 8-12, but will sleep forever between 230-7. Anybody know what the hell is wrong with me?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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DJDamage

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Could be your diet and lifestyle....

You should get between 8-7 hours a sleep every night.

read a book in bed, you eventually going to doze off.

Don't eat big meals when you get home and avoid heavy carbs foods such as bread and potato's.

Hopefully you don't wack off too much.

try find time to excersize in the gym, it will give you more energy throughout the day, and you will sleep like a log at night.

You should also see a Doctor, you could be lacking some vitamins.

If you are at school during the afternoon - see if you can find a place for half an hour and sleep. Even a short nap will energize you throughout the day.
 

Keasbey Nights

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Yeah now that you mention it, I have been slacking of finthe exercise deptatment due to school and the fact that I don't play a fall sport. I'll try all your advice, thanks a lot.
 

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You can use melatonin to help 'reset' your bioclock. I use it to combat jetlag and definately helps.

There is also an amino acid that can be used to induce sleep, and many people swear by lavender oil on the pillow.

A good shag usually send me straight off though. :D

Avoid naps at all costs.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Hopefully you don't wack off too much.
Thats funny because I was going to say wack off just before you want to go to bed. It always works for me when I cant sleep. I would advise you not to take long naps during the day.
 

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Here's another angle on it.

How much are you enjoying school at the moment? Are you having some troubles or maybe find it boring?

It's funny how we get the energy for something we really enjoy, then sort of shut down with things that don't interest us.

If you have a level of anxiety about tomorrow rather than a feeling of being 'on track', various hormones your thoughts trigger will keep you awake.

This may not be valid for you, but worth mensioning.
 

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Originally posted by Alpine
You can use melatonin to help 'reset' your bioclock. I use it to combat jetlag and definately helps.

There is also an amino acid that can be used to induce sleep, and many people swear by lavender oil on the pillow.

A good shag usually send me straight off though. :D

Avoid naps at all costs.
At 17 years of age melatonin is absolutly useless.
 

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Take deep breaths of lavender oil and you WILL feel sleepy. If you want faster results though, try ammonia.
 

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In highschool I had to read a 500 page book called "The discovery of new Attica", I guarantee, this book will knock you the fvck out like 3 tabs of rohypnol.

If you can't get hold of that book, go see your doctor, say you're depressed and ask him to prescribe you "remeron", that stuff works better then any sleeping pill... The first time I took it knocked me out cold for 14hrs..
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no..DO NOT TAKE remeron...or any sleeping pill or anti-depressent....all they will do is get you hooked. You need to naturally re-adjust your sleep pattern. there are lotsa good books on the subject at the local bookstores.
 
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