"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Keasbey Nights

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I have this wierd problem with my sleep patterns. Everyday when I come home from school to about 7 I am exausted. I usually pass out and sleep for at least a few hours everyday after school. Since I sleep during the day. I am not tired at night.

The obvious solution is to stay up and go to bed early, but when I do that, at about 8 I am wide awake until about 12. I want more sleep but I can not fall asleep between 8-12, but will sleep forever between 230-7. Anybody know what the hell is wrong with me?
 

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You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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DJDamage

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Could be your diet and lifestyle....

You should get between 8-7 hours a sleep every night.

read a book in bed, you eventually going to doze off.

Don't eat big meals when you get home and avoid heavy carbs foods such as bread and potato's.

Hopefully you don't wack off too much.

try find time to excersize in the gym, it will give you more energy throughout the day, and you will sleep like a log at night.

You should also see a Doctor, you could be lacking some vitamins.

If you are at school during the afternoon - see if you can find a place for half an hour and sleep. Even a short nap will energize you throughout the day.
 

Keasbey Nights

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Yeah now that you mention it, I have been slacking of finthe exercise deptatment due to school and the fact that I don't play a fall sport. I'll try all your advice, thanks a lot.
 

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You can use melatonin to help 'reset' your bioclock. I use it to combat jetlag and definately helps.

There is also an amino acid that can be used to induce sleep, and many people swear by lavender oil on the pillow.

A good shag usually send me straight off though. :D

Avoid naps at all costs.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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icecreaman

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Originally posted by DJDamage
Hopefully you don't wack off too much.
Thats funny because I was going to say wack off just before you want to go to bed. It always works for me when I cant sleep. I would advise you not to take long naps during the day.
 

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Here's another angle on it.

How much are you enjoying school at the moment? Are you having some troubles or maybe find it boring?

It's funny how we get the energy for something we really enjoy, then sort of shut down with things that don't interest us.

If you have a level of anxiety about tomorrow rather than a feeling of being 'on track', various hormones your thoughts trigger will keep you awake.

This may not be valid for you, but worth mensioning.
 

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Originally posted by Alpine
You can use melatonin to help 'reset' your bioclock. I use it to combat jetlag and definately helps.

There is also an amino acid that can be used to induce sleep, and many people swear by lavender oil on the pillow.

A good shag usually send me straight off though. :D

Avoid naps at all costs.
At 17 years of age melatonin is absolutly useless.
 

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Take deep breaths of lavender oil and you WILL feel sleepy. If you want faster results though, try ammonia.
 

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In highschool I had to read a 500 page book called "The discovery of new Attica", I guarantee, this book will knock you the fvck out like 3 tabs of rohypnol.

If you can't get hold of that book, go see your doctor, say you're depressed and ask him to prescribe you "remeron", that stuff works better then any sleeping pill... The first time I took it knocked me out cold for 14hrs..
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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no..DO NOT TAKE remeron...or any sleeping pill or anti-depressent....all they will do is get you hooked. You need to naturally re-adjust your sleep pattern. there are lotsa good books on the subject at the local bookstores.
 
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