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Sledding?

toddC

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Okay, this HB 8 that is interested in me just got back from the junior ski trip (all the juniors in my school go away get drunk etc etc)...So she texted me tonight when she got home.

Now today was the first time we had A LOT of snow this whole season and all my friends wnat to go sledding...Now would it be good or bad to invite this chick cause she just got home?

Would it seem too desperate or would it seem cute that I want to hang with her already?
 

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Alright, seriously sledding right? like get on a GT snoracer and burn it? Tobogganing? Yes?

If so I got a wicked dare:D

Great peacocking, and it WILL show confidence:p Or at least build it. Time to break out of any comfort zone your in;)

Invite her to go sledding, and make it FUN!!!

When she shows up, come with 6+ large black garbage bags.

I'm from Nunavut, snow for 10 months of the year, we gotta know how to have fun sledding;)

Do you know what the garbage bags are going to be for?
 

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don't worry we know how to sled lol...but you guys don't think it would seem like a lil needy or too soon to ask her to hang considering she just got back from her little trip last night?
 

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Nah man, make it a warm welcome!

Come running out of nowhere wearing those garbage bags as a suit and hurtle yourself down the hill. you can tuck yourself and slide down the hill anyway you want.

Canonballs, rolls, butt slides, backwards, you can even spin out in circles... what you say, you wanna be dangerous? grab one of those inner tubes for the loaders and tell somebody to get on top while you lay on your back...

Man, you can't go wrong with sliding.

Grab the girl and jump down the hill... you know like the superbowl comercial, tackle her and drag her down. At the bottom shove some snow down her back and wherever you else you think she might want it.

Don't foget to social proof though. If other people see you fooling around with her and giving wierd looks because your obsessed, she will start to feel really insecure.

Wheeeeeeee!
 
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