"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Slapping her ass in public..

slickaz

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How many of ya'll do this to yo plates/girls in public?

what is their response?

Every girl ive been with ive slapped their ass in public.. i do it regularly like a crack addict to that jelly.

They all come back with "SLICK!!!! not in public!!!"
i usually come back with "it slapped me first damnit!!!"

I always hear about how getting their ass slapped in public felt like they were with a bad bad boy. almost like it was a turn on even though they deny it.

Does any one else have similar stuff happen?

Women say one thing and mean another..
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Some chicks get a kick out of it and some don't.

I actually get a kick out of them getting embarrassed like that, after I jokingly spank their tush in public. If they don't, then I will attempt to push the envelope and find something that will.

Just the other day I saw this dude in the mall walking with his girl with one hand down and inside the back of her pants squeezing her ass pears and she didn't even blink (he must have pushed the envelope to such a point where squeezing her ass in public like that has become the norm for her, either that or she was just a hor).
 

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i love when they act all embarassed and give that cheeky smile like "SLIIIIIIICK!!" grrriiiiin..not in public!!!

yeh right u love it!
 

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thx for the response slickaz, but you know she has my ass right where she wants it - lol. Her ego must just get her soooo wet thinking about it...

As for slapping her ass. I say right effen. If more people showed affection and playfulness in public, the world would be a much better place.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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I always go for it. They soo love it. In fact i have no problem being quite physical in public.

I recall once back when i was still pushing boundaries to find my niche, a girl at my workplace was complaining that she was sore from moving patio stones earlier.I really didn't know her that well, but even so, without question during the conversation i move in and give her a nice shoulder rub as we're walking. She obviously enjoys it and as soon as i'm done i keep one hand on her shoulder, and with teh other i give that tush a nice playful smack and go "Next time i won't be so nice."

She walked away with a SMILE a mile wide.

I miss that place... new hot young cashiers every few months... so much fun and potential. :p
 

Aragon034

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^^^^Awesome. What other physical touching do you do?
Really it depends on the situation. It's so normal for me now it's not something i consciously think about doing. Ass spanking is something i only ever do with girls i trust a bit more. (or hoes, but that's a whole different story)

However... i wasn't like that before. When i first started pushing the kino, i started with handshakes, shoulder squeezes, poking, faking picking something off her face, tickling... etc... over time, it just became natural to see "ins" where you could move in, do something, then move out before it gets awkward.

Example: walking up to her from behind, put your arm around her and give her shoulder a squeeze as you announce your presence.

A personal thing i do is sneak up on people. Say what you will, but i'm very metal gear solid when i know someone doesn't know i'm there. So i'll sneak up to them, stand right next to them, tap the opposite shoulder, then when they look and see no one, start talking and give them a playful poke or punch. They'll likely fight back playfully, and ta-da, after a little sparring match, give her a hug and continue like normal.

I recall giving a drunken date of mine a footrub in a taxi once too. That was a little strange.

As you get used to it, it becomes more and more natural the kinds of movements you do.
 
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