"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Slapped

Lion

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By a girl, What does one do?
She likes me but she slapped me "hard" after a cheeky comment I made. Whats the best thing to do, how should i act?
I acted astounded and she kept trying to apologise! Do i hug her?:up:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Usually what I do in this situation is look like I'm very hurt emotionally, and a little bit physically (but make it obvious that you are joking) Then as she's apologizing, turn it into her needing to make it up to you. That is, if you're attempting to get something like a kiss or more out of it. Works for me all the time.
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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laugh it off (in a "i can't believe you just slapped me" kinda way and then with a bit of a condescending tone..... say: "wow... was THAT really necessary? you owe me for that" *sly grin*


It shouldn't really phase you
 

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i'd pull my c0ck out and slap her with it then reply

AH take that!
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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