Slap 'em on the butt to win them over?

[ThisNThat]

A friend of mine, don't think he plays with a full deck with the way he thinks when it comes to dating. He said that another way to "flirt" with a woman is, that is if you've known them on an acquaintence level for a while, you slap them on the butt, playfully, as part of the flirting process.

I think he sees it as some kind of cute horseplay.

I've actually seen him do it with a woman. We knew each other for a while, as we've always gone out in groups. One day he was coming to my area and a female friend was coming along. She also invited a married couple that were friends of hers. He asked me to come along since he was going to be within minutes of where Iived.

I thought he was kind of BS'ing me, until I saw him in action.

He did it once while she was in front of him walking, she didn't react. So it did it a second time, she still ignored him.

I think the only reason she didn't react to it was because this is someone she's known for a while, ,otherwise she probably would have slapped him or yelled at him in public. But nada.

Of course, he never did wind up dating her. So that's how that worked out, but he's apparently convinced that this is another part of "the game".?

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

You never smacked a girl's ass before?

 

[RangerMIke]

Women like this... if they like you. If they don't like you it could be grounds for sexual assault. The cost benefit analysis for doing something like this is too high. Unless you know the chick digs you and you are in private I would definitely advise against doing anything like this.

 

[Von]

Women like this... if they like you. If they don't like you it could be grounds for sexual assault. The cost benefit analysis for doing something like this is too high. Unless you know the chick digs you and you are in private I would definitely advise against doing anything like this.

Did it last night, in public at à concert hall while she was doing up the stair. I think she loved it.

However, Agreed, it's something to do if you wanna kino/escalte/ test her interest.

Keep it private as much possible

 

[Urbanyst]

Yep.

 

[Building_and_Loan]

I would strongly advise against doing this to a woman you haven't already had sex with. Even then, use with caution.

There are plenty of ways to establish kino that don't involve slapping her ass in public. Even if she's ok with it, she won't show it because doing that in public makes her look a bit slutty, and she can't have that.

 

[PeasantPlayer]

If proper communication is built its fine, never seen any dude get locked up for it. You have to be smooth when you do it not obnoxious. Timing is everything, you just don't go around slapping women's asses in public.

One time my friend told me had had a few chicks that wanted to come over and hang out....drink smoke weed, I had the place so I was like cool....about 5 chicks came over.....we all mingled it was about 4 guys and 5 females....ratio was good, conversations were flowing. I ended up smacking a chicks ass about 30 minutes in to meeting here. She gasp and got quiet and was like "wow that actually felt really good, you know how to smack an ass"

 

[AlphaNate]

I do this all the time with plates, but I wouldn't do it to a chick you just met. That's a headache you don't want.

 

[wifehunter]

Is better if butts are nice!!!