"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Skinny Tie Rocker Look

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Im heading to Gran Canaria this June (25th) and want a cool new look for the holidays - I wanna stand out/peacock a bit over there as I never seem to do it here!

I was thinking about this look:

- Short Sleeved Shirt (unbuttoned all the way)

- Underneath an unusual type of cool tee shirt (Mr T./cartoon character/slogan...)

- Skinny Tie loosely tied around my neck!

- Baggy Jeans

- Cool casual shoe-runners!

What you guys think?

The PUA '26' wears the look Im talking about...
 

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I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

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Try to find a more up-to-date look. Skinny ties are still cool, but shirts unbuttoned over T-shirts haven't been cool since "Malcolm in the Middle". Get tighter jeans, too. If you'll be going to clubs, get some smarter shoes than trainers, preferably something shiny/sparkly. Good luck!
 

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I don't know if this would be considered pea-****ing, but the other day I tried out a new look and it got a pretty good response. I put on a casual sweater with a dress shirt underneath. I let the collar of the dress shirt stick out of the sweater. I put on a necklace and let it rest above the sweatshirt and underneath the collar. I also wore a hat (because my hair was messed up and I didn't feel like doing anything with it). It got a good response.
 

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mate, get yourself a cool hat.

You'll probably be one of the only people wearing one, and stand out straight away.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Thanks guys

To tell the truth, I dont wanna look like a rocker, and I really hate skinny jeans.

I suppose what I was trying to say is: Whats your take on the skinny ties? I think they look kinda cool.

And to the poster that suggested a hat, youre damn right man, what type of cap would ya recommend?
 

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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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honestly wearing ties and etc. seems really played out and lame now..... that's just me tho

back when nobody did it, it wouldve been kinda cool, but it's been done to death now dude
 

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silverwex said:
And to the poster that suggested a hat, youre damn right man, what type of cap would ya recommend?
It depends what suits you mate, and what your style is.

I look good in peaked beanies, but theyre kind of rinsed now, I still picked up 1 in LA last week though because it was quite differen't that others people are wearing. But As rinsed as they are, girls still love you in them, girls are quite fickle and seem to just be into an image, and you notice the difference in some places when you wear one and when your not...

I'm quite into knitted beanies, no one seems to wear them nwo theyre all wearing peaked beanies. Gonna try and get hold of some original ones.


A good thign about wearing a hat, is it gives girls a reason to approach you i.e 'i like your hat blah blah' and your in there.
 

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Hats are cool if you look good in them (I don't), but in my mind they take away one of the best ways to demonstrate value: a cool hairstyle. A cool hairstyle says a lot more about you than a cool hat, but NQT is right that they give girls an excuse to come talk to you.
 
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