She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
ok do what works for you but generally getting toned and cut involves eating the right foodsGhostWriter said:Gaining bulk requires low weight high rep.
Getting toned and cut requires high weight low rep.
I utilize both techniques, emphasizing more on the latter as opposed to the former.
lol whatDemystify said:How are squats good for bulking up? Any time I do squats I feel much skinnier.
I've added 40lbs of mass since january... so 8 months... eat big and train big, its the only way.Cure said:like the others have said.
Get access to a barbell and power rack,
Eat big,
Lift big,
Become big.
Push ups wont cut it.
EDIT-
LoL, I just had a quick read of your link
"Remember that adding muscle takes years, the most you can expect to add in a year is 5-10lbs"
My 15- 20lb of muscle in nine months dissagrees, and my results are fairly typical.
This man doesnt know what he's talking about.
Cure.
Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
ok this i find hard to believe, 2 days in the gym per week and u've gained 30lbs in 6 months?runner83 said:Body weight might be okay if you want to tone what you've got, but for building muscle, FORGET IT!
Lifting light weights is a waste of time.
I simply want to get in, get my workout done in the most efficient way to stimulate muscle growth and get out.
You should be continually aiming to increase either the weight and/or number of reps on each and every exercise.
Nutrition is also at least 50% of the key. You need to enough calories and the composition of those calories will determine what kind of weight you gain.
The original quote about 5-10 lbs being the most you can gain is also b*s - I've gained 30 pounds in the last 6 months using 2 workouts per week, a maximum of 3 hours workout (including warm ups etc) per week.
Believe it. 5'8", I started at 154 and am now up to 186 at last measure.morepoonplease said:ok this i find hard to believe, 2 days in the gym per week and u've gained 30lbs in 6 months?
Nutrition is more like 70% of the battle... being in the gym for 3 hrs will also work backwards.... shouldn't be longer than 1.5 hrs then u need to get some protein and fast carbs into you as your body is in a state of muscle hypertrophy.
good work bro, i'm sitting right at the 40lb mark myself... been at it 8 months straight, i lift 5X a week though... benching 310lbs... i've added 100lbs to my overall bench in that timeframe... glad to see you've got everything down pact... looks like you're going to make serious gains for a long time to come!runner83 said:Believe it. 5'8", I started at 154 and am now up to 186 at last measure.
When I said 3 hours, I meant total per week. So 2 workouts a week, no more than 1.5 hours total (normally about 1 hour per workout excluding warmup and cooldown phases).
And that's just using a bench, barbell, dumbbells, and weights at my place.
I operate on the high intensity, low volume principle so I lift as heavy as I can, no more than 12 - 14 sets of 5-7 reps (for most exercises) per workout.
If I get more reps than 7 (12 for some exercises) I increase the weight.
My entire focus is to either increase the weight and/or reps for each exercise every time I work out. Also have 1 week off after 8 weeks straight.
Nutrition is definitely a big part, probably is closer to 70%, and it's a 24 hour a day job. I went on the net and bought a 20kg bag of whey protein, since that was the most cost effective way to buy it.
I have 7 meals a day, including 3 - 5 protein shakes (5 if if I exercise or workout). Only supplements I'm using are creatine and glutamine. I also tend to have about 3L (0.8 gallons?) of milk a day.
May not work for all, but so far for me, it's worked well.
Continuing to gain weight and increase my weight lifted on exercises, so might as well keep going.
I also maintain a cardio program well in excess of what most ordinary people would do, so to have maintained my fitness and also put on so much quality weight has been really satisfying.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.