"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Skinny Guy

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Well, im 6 ft. and 140 lbs. yes, i am skinny. i just read pooks advice from DJ tips. he said somthing like skinny guys are hopeless. well, do you guys agree? Im trying to gain some weight now, but i need some time. does this means that i have to wait till i gain more pounds to hit on chicks? also, does being skinny means that "double your dating" won't do me any good or success on hotties?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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gruby

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Only fat girls or slim girls who think they are fat will be attracted to you -- so no you are not hopeless.
 

alphawolfx

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muscles make things easier...

but it's all for s.hit without confidence

hit on chicks NOW, and stop caring about the outcome, and work out

things will only get easier
 

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To say that a skinny guy will never get a hot girl is a lie. Muscles make things easier but not all girls are into bulging biceps etc.

I was at a club a few days ago and I saw so many guys who were so ripped like body builders but were still REALLY AFC. I think that personallity counts for a lot and what is on the inside does matter quite a bit. I am kind of skinny too, I am working out but I wont let size stop me from trying because I think so many women are looking for nearly anyone who will just approach them right.

Besides have you realised that most women are worried about being to fat/thin not hving big enough breasts, having spots, feeling ugly? They see their imperfections just at much as we see our own.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Sart

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ALPHAWOLFX

I agree with Alpha again, all the answers lay in your confidence. A skinny little runt friend of mine used to, and still does, put em away like there is no tomorrow. The major reason people like myself, and I would assume Alphawolfx, advocate self improvement, is simple. The skinny guys can get the chicks, but YOU are a skinny guy who cant. WHY? ASK YOURSELF WHY?

CONFIDENCE.

So, because you are not a natural, you need to become one. Yu dont need 100 tips on hw to ACT like one, you need to BE one. Just make the decision dude and BE one. Muscles will help you along the way because you will feel more confident, just like those skinny guys do naturally.

It isnt a state of acting, desiring or wanting, it is a state of BEing. Do you follow? Hope you do, it really is that simple.
 

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I too am really skinny and since I started working out I've had much more confidence. I'm 5' 8 1/2" and I was 104 lbs. at the beginning of the year. Now I'm up to 114 but I'm still hella skinny (much better though). I just need to get some more muscle on my arms and I'll be a lot more confident since that's one of the most noticable body parts with clothes on. So I'd say hit on girls all you want now but start working out and you'll feel much better about yourself.
 

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Originally posted by ROOKIE OF THE YEAR
Well, im 6 ft. and 140 lbs. yes, i am skinny. i just read pooks advice from DJ tips. he said somthing like skinny guys are hopeless. well, do you guys agree? Im trying to gain some weight now, but i need some time. does this means that i have to wait till i gain more pounds to hit on chicks? also, does being skinny means that "double your dating" won't do me any good or success on hotties?
Do what Pook recommends: sign up at http://www.skinnyguy.net and get on the plan. You can still hit on girls now, but your confidence will go up immeasurably if you actually continue with this plan and get muscular.
 

DeathDealer

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I disagree with gruby's statement on fat girls or slim girls who think they're fat will dig skinny guys. He must be so insecure to put down women like that.

I don't think it's particularly being skinny that is unattractive to people. Think bigger.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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thefonz

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i dunno man, when i was skinny i got hit on by.......well, nobody....but fat chicks defenitly showed the most interest. But thats probably cus they have lower standards>i dunno
 

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Originally posted by thefonz
i dunno man, when i was skinny i got hit on by.......well, nobody....but fat chicks defenitly showed the most interest. But thats probably cus they have lower standards>i dunno
Or because they know that if you ever upset them they could break you in half
 

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Maybe big muscular guys being in demand is an American thing. I know that here in Canada, I'm by no means muscular (5'11, 160) but I get plenty of attention and advances from many hot women. Fatties usually stay away too(maybe its because of the scowl I give them...)

When it all comes down to it, its all about using what you have to the best it can be utilized, and being confident about your physique (pending its not obese...then you should be ashamed)
 

alphawolfx

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the whole point of all these posts are...

sure, work out, it can only help

but approach women right NOW anyways... don't get tied up with the outcome either

i got into a LTR when i was 135 (at 5'9), and i'm 150 now, and i look much better...

but things didn't get any easier until i had some f.ucking confidence...

so work out AND approach, starting ASAP
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wiesman44

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being that skinny hurts you more than it helps you. But you can get girls. Most girls don't like really skinny guys, but that doesn't mean every girl doesn't. Go to the gym, and eat a lot. You'll be fine.
 
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