"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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skin questions after losing weight...

Morphiex

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so ive been lazy the last year or so , and ive gained about 20-25 lb , and ive started to do diesels cutting program....

but i have a few questions , when i loose the extra weight and my homer spimpson gut goes back in , what happens to the skin ?
will the skin be like disguting just hangin out or will it return back to being tight... and does anyone know of a good way to get rid of strechmarks ?
ive got them on the side of my stomche since i gained 20 lb just there......
 

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You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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It's hard to tell if your skin will go back to normal, you'll have to wait until you're body fat percentage gets low to know for sure. It really depends on how big your stomach has gotten. Me and my brother used to be fat as kids, we both lost the weight but he had some extra skin on his stomach so he had it surgically removed. If you do have loose, hanging skin after you've lost the weight the only way to remove it is through surgery. As for stretchmarks I've heard that shea butter works well, it's supposed to make them less apparent but I'm not sure if there's anything that can make them completely go away.
 

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As long as you are not so fat that you have stretch marks, when you get in shape, the skin will eventually become "normal".

However, if you have stretch marks, nothing can make them go away. There are things you can do to change their color so they become less visible, but that's about it. Why do you think some rich hot women are so "scared" of having babies? Because you never know if there will be stretch marks or not. Once it's there, it stays for life...:eek:
 

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That's the great thing about bulking - you can use muscle gain as your reason for having stretch marks :)
 

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There's some stuff called Bio Oil that can get rid of stretch marks for you, so yes it's possible Le Parisien. It has worked for me and a fair few other bodybuilders. As for the loose skin issue, you should be fine unless you were morbidly obese.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

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[S]alvatore said:
There's some stuff called Bio Oil that can get rid of stretch marks for you, so yes it's possible Le Parisien. It has worked for me and a fair few other bodybuilders. As for the loose skin issue, you should be fine unless you were morbidly obese.
alvatore:

Please tell me more about this Bio Oil thing, how does it work? Ingredients? Do you need to use it for a long time? Where to buy? Is it expensive?

Because I have a friend who just gave birth a couple of months ago who might need some help since unfortunately she got a lot of stretch marks because of it.
 

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http://www.bio-oil.info/

Select your country and it should be able to tell you where to buy it (Although i'm sure it's avaliable at your nearest chemist/supermarket). Bio-Oil contains the unique ingredient PurCellin Oil™, vitamins A and E, Calendula, Lavender and Rosemary oils and Chamomile extract. Recommended to be applied 2 times a day to the affected areas (whether they be scars or stretchmarks).

I'm not trying to push you into buying this, it actually works. I used to have these hugeass stretch marks on my biceps, glutes, and the top of my lats after I went on a cut. Within 4 weeks of using they were nearly gone, so give it a go. It's fairly inexpensive as well.
 

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[S]alvatore said:
http://www.bio-oil.info/

Select your country and it should be able to tell you where to buy it (Although i'm sure it's avaliable at your nearest chemist/supermarket). Bio-Oil contains the unique ingredient PurCellin Oil™, vitamins A and E, Calendula, Lavender and Rosemary oils and Chamomile extract. Recommended to be applied 2 times a day to the affected areas (whether they be scars or stretchmarks).

I'm not trying to push you into buying this, it actually works. I used to have these hugeass stretch marks on my biceps, glutes, and the top of my lats after I went on a cut. Within 4 weeks of using they were nearly gone, so give it a go. It's fairly inexpensive as well.
Thanks a lot man!:flowers:

No I'm not gonna buy it, I just might want to tell my friend what to do to get rid of her stretch marks.:D

I already checked the website, unsurprisingly, it's only sold in a few English speaking countries. But the UK is close enough to France, looks like it's sold in "normal" pharmacies, so it probably won't be too difficult to get it through a friend who lives in the UK.

By the way, were your stretch marks "serious"? I mean, were they large and very different from your skin color? Did this bio oil simply improve the color or it really helped to smooth them out?

Thousand thanks for your input!:flowers:
 

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Good God, that bio oil is available in the most random places I've ever seen:

1. The North Pole
2. The South Pole
3. The Galapagos islands

I'm not knocking their product, but who in their right mind lives in the Galapagos islands besides flying squirrels, emus, and tribal natives who live on coconuts and bananas? lol
 

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Melvin said:
Good God, that bio oil is available in the most random places I've ever seen:

1. The North Pole
2. The South Pole
3. The Galapagos islands

I'm not knocking their product, but who in their right mind lives in the Galapagos islands besides flying squirrels, emus, and tribal natives who live on coconuts and bananas? lol
lol:p
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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