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Skin color changes

kk2004

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Maybe Im the only one with this problem but I noticed that sometimes my skin color changes, that when its afternoon I go to a dark brown. But when I wake up my skin is tan and semi-white sometimes. Its like olive in the morning and then brown in the afternoon.

I dont get it. Plus I like the olive color of my skin, is there some way to keep it from getting darker?
 

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quest

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Originally posted by kk2004
is there some way to keep it from getting darker?
Stay in well lit areas?
 

C00L

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your skin isnt changing color its just the different lighting thats making you look different.
 
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