"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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So I was railing some chick last night and things are going well.. got her up to an orgasm by just fingering the girl for 10min or so. Then I got in, all is well, shes moaning and then I switch it up to doggy style and all the sudden shes screaming in pain!

Thinking that shes screaming in pleasure I just keep plowing. Before I know it she throws me back and runs to the bathroom. I look down and I have blood all over me.

NOW, she wasn't on her period. And no she is not a virgin by any means. But she says to me, "wow i've never had anyone that thick and long."

Now I find this hard to believe.. On a good day I measure just around 7'. I have to admit I'm pretty girthy, but nothing like Lexington Steele or anything.

Should I feel pretty confident about this or did this woman just have vag problems?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I guess I've sorta had your problem. I don't know where I stand girth wise, I think I'm about average, but I'm pretty long I guess at over 7".

I've only ever had sex with four girls. One of the girls was pretty small inside, and she used to make these horrible wincing expressions with her face as if in terrible pain when I was giving it to her all the way. Certain positions were just a no-go. She didn't get all bloody on me though, which is good, since that woulda been freaky. We had sex maybe half a dozen times, but it was pretty bad for both of us since it was always done cautiously. Stopped seeing her pretty quick.

As for the other girls, no complaints, only compliments.

I guess you'll find out in due time whether this chick is into that kind of pain. More likely though is just that you're physically incompatible. Don't worry, I don't think that'll happen too often.
 
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blackhatter said:
On a good day I measure just around 7'. I have to admit I'm pretty girthy, but nothing like Lexington Steele or anything.
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7' is pretty damn long - like a world record. 7" is closer to average.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I wish I had your problem, if it is a problem at all.
 
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Lol yeah nice typo. If it's 7 feet either long or around, and you're wondering why it hurt her, that's a pretty big duh.

Otherwise, 7 inches long is bigger than average but nothing the average chick can't handle. 7 inches around is quite big and yeah, you might have compatibility issues with some girls.

However even then, the bleeding seems pretty weird... Maybe she was really dry? Lol maybe you put it in her ass instead by accident?
 
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6" is about average, give or take, and average circumference is around 5".

That said, there is NO reason that a 7" penis with a girth that is moderately above average should cause pain and bleeding for a chick (unless she is a virgin). Hell, I'm sure most of you saw Tommy Lee going balls deep in Pam with nary a problem.

Are you sure you didn't accidentally stick it in the two hole when you were giving it to her doggystyle?
 
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I am almost 7 and my girl was cheating on me with a black guy, rumor has it he is about 9". I heard that from a girl he used to date.

I think size preference is dependant on the girl
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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real2 said:
What does it matter? He could be 8" even, yet if you're a decent PUA, then you should be sleeping with many women.
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Who says he's a PUA? Remember, this isn't a PUA site.
 
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I agree that it doesnt really matter IF you have enough self esteem and control of your emotions to not get angry or jealous of your penis size, I am 5 3/4 , I have sex with a couple of women and my penis isnt as big as some peoples but I dont let it bother me that much. But it would be a NICE problem to have if you were over the 6 inch mark as opposed below it.
 
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it has also happened to me before...

my xgirlfriends bleeds sometimes when we've abstain from sex for a while...

and no,she's not dry...in fact she's enjoying it more...

and no,mine is not that big too...

so i wonder why is that happening..
 
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She enjoys it more when its bleeding? Wow your girl is hardcore...

Anyway, I think both the OP and gherald should recommend their girls see their OBGYN's, I don't think its normal. I've had problems with hurting the girl in certain positions if you go too deep, but never to the point of bleeding.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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real2 said:
What does it matter? He could be 8" even, yet if you're a decent PUA, then you should be sleeping with many women.
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One of my biggest fetishes is hearing women moan. I just love it when I make them scream in pleasure that gets me turned on more than anything.
 
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I agree, I love hearing a woman moan as she rides my 9" woody (well almost nine).....

I also like the look of surprise on the white girls I hooked up with, as if they have never seen one that big before
 
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SmoothTalker said:
She enjoys it more when its bleeding? Wow your girl is hardcore...

Anyway, I think both the OP and gherald should recommend their girls see their OBGYN's, I don't think its normal. I've had problems with hurting the girl in certain positions if you go too deep, but never to the point of bleeding.
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she's not hurt or anything...and no,it not alot of blood if that's what you're thinking....

we just noticed it after we're finished...

she use that to her advantage though...she had sex with another guy and told him that she's still a virgin...wtf?!!

but that was during my AFC days
 
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