"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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We have over 13,000 members for crying out loud, and even more regular guests! Can you guys believe that ****? I'd like to knwo what you guys think of that. Do oyu think we need to grow more? shrink? stay the same? This is a big number folks. For every 10,000 american citizens, one of them is a member or guest at sosuave.com!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Giovanni Casanova

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Originally posted by Double_Diamonds
We have over 13,000 members for crying out loud, and even more regular guests! Can you guys believe that ****? I'd like to knwo what you guys think of that. Do oyu think we need to grow more? shrink? stay the same? This is a big number folks. For every 10,000 american citizens, one of them is a member or guest at sosuave.com!
Not all sosuave.net members and guests are American citizens. We're talking 13,000 out of more than 6 billion people.
 

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I don't get how this is a suggestion and feedback topic? Perhaps anything else...I don't even know what the original poster is asking? Most of the 13,000 members don't post and the accounts are innactive.
 

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Originally posted by Double_Diamonds
We have over 13,000 members for crying out loud, and even more regular guests! Can you guys believe that ****? I'd like to knwo what you guys think of that. Do oyu think we need to grow more? shrink? stay the same?
He's giving feedback on the forum's size, and asking for others feedback on whether we should shrink, stay the same, or grow more... Feedback doesn't have always come in the form of "UR FORUM SUX & DINT SIND ME MY PASSWURD". :p
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What would be the standard response here?

Size Doesn't Matter ;)
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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Originally posted by Sexy_Malibu
What would be the standard response here?

Size Doesn't Matter ;)
You know good and well you women know that it DOES matter... :D
 

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What does Allen's size have to do with a damn thing?
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Originally posted by MetalFortress
I don't see a problem. The more guys that know about the DJB instead of following feminazi advice, the better. While the advice here is by no means perfect, and at times extremely stupid, it gives a man some good material to work with and sort out.
Yeah, well. If you guys are scared of too much guys knowing about it... think how many DJ's you've met in real life. I bet that you've seen more naturals.

I'd be more interested in Sosuave statsitics. How many posts daily, the size of all the text, how much it would be in paper print, daily post record etc.
 

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How strange, I was thinking about this yesterday, before I'd even seen the post.

There was a guy (haven't met him, but he's American) in my college going round talking about 'the kiss test' and a form of C + F, so I knew that, at the least, he'd seen David D's writings.

My college only has about 450 undergrads, so a coincidence. So I was thinking, "how many people *are* there who know this forum?"

(Dunno if I'll try and meet him some time).

Obviously, not all 13,000 people are active, but hell, there's got to be loads of lurkers (and about 6 months ago, me for one) who haven't registered.
 

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Originally posted by diablo
They're talking about the forum, you wag! It's feedback from them about the forum! Suggestions and Feedback! Arghh...
Just give up Diablo...
 

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it doesnt really matter the size of this forum....this forum could go to hell, it wouldnt matter bc theres so many more sites on the internet you can get this same stuff from....live with it, in a couple of years this way of dating will be all over the US first, cause theres so many ppl just searching the internet....and then it will spread to the world and then then there will be no more AFCs, and girls will gladly get ****ed and they will be so much happier.

oh and by the way how is 1 out of every 10000 ppl that lives in the US a member in this forum....only about .005% of US population is a member here and thats if you assume everyone is from the US which is not true
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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and then it will spread to the world and then then there will be no more AFCs
Bull****. Majority of people do NOT want to change and are too afraid of it.

"Well, I guess she wasn't my type."
They like to guess insetead of finding out what's wrong. They are afraid of the truth they are AFC even in theory they could success.
But doing it would be risky for their dream. What if it went wrong and their dream would be destroyed..

My point being. There'll be always way more those people who don't want to listen ANYTHING that comes outside from what major media and commont opinion is and seems to be.

If there would be no AFC's then the whole concept of nice guys and all should have to change. A DJ would become a standard like being a nice guy is...
Then, do you really think girls would go for the masses of guys who satisfy them at good level? nope. There would be those guys who are even more than a normal DJ and girls would go after them.
 
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