"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Size 16 makes it to the finals of Ms England

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WTF, why doesn't she just eat less? If I could just go on a diet and be a DJ, how easy would that be?

Reminds me of a girl I had lunch with during the week. She was an 8 in her pics. But a 5 in person. Simply b/c she packed on the pounds. I'm trying to think of a way to suggest that she be my gym partner without offending her. Any suggestions?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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She has a double chin.

That is just not sexy.
 

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thedeparted said:
WTF, why doesn't she just eat less? If I could just go on a diet and be a DJ, how easy would that be?

Reminds me of a girl I had lunch with during the week. She was an 8 in her pics. But a 5 in person. Simply b/c she packed on the pounds. I'm trying to think of a way to suggest that she be my gym partner without offending her. Any suggestions?
Why would it offend her? She lost some weight she should be proud.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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MCristo said:
Why would it offend her? She lost some weight she should be proud.
If it mattered to her she would have lost it. It's not as if she doesn't know she's overweight, she's comfortable the way she is.
 

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Christ on a bike.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Francisco d'Anconia said:
Note to self... Scratch the UK from the list of places that have more attractive women than the US.

I should have done that long ago...
What the HELL. No way does UK have fitter women. Hmm, let's see. Jess Alba, Megan Fox, Jess Biel, Elisha Cuthbert, Angelina Jolie. I mean, CMON. OOF!
 

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I always the the reason the English conquered the world back when was b/c the pickings at home were so slim. Ugly chicks, who can't cook.

About my situation -- this girl needs to lose some lbs. I want to propose her being my gym partner. Would be convenient for both. How do I mention it without sounding like I'm saying, "Hey, you look like you could lose a few..." which is insulting to a chick. I only met this girl once for lunch.
 

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SilverSonnet said:
What the HELL. No way does UK have fitter women. Hmm, let's see. Jess Alba, Megan Fox, Jess Biel, Elisha Cuthbert, Angelina Jolie. I mean, CMON. OOF!
Next time any of those lasses are at your house give them my number. :p
 

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thedeparted said:
I always the the reason the English conquered the world back when was b/c the pickings at home were so slim. Ugly chicks, who can't cook.

About my situation -- this girl needs to lose some lbs. I want to propose her being my gym partner. Would be convenient for both. How do I mention it without sounding like I'm saying, "Hey, you look like you could lose a few..." which is insulting to a chick. I only met this girl once for lunch.
I just told my girl that I was going to the gym and she followed

comic_relief
 

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DJDamage said:
This is what happens when feminism takes over society and then decides to use their own definition of beauty.

She probably got a great personality.....
The feminist corporate media is starting to push obesity as normal in women rather than a huge problem. Much in the same way they push masculine b|tchy women and expect us to love them, they are doing the same for fat chicks. The matrix has us all!!!!
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dDD2jN2HQEQ&feature=user

Sort of reminds me of the tale of "the emperor's New cloths". All you need is some little kid to point out and say "but she is fat" for this lie to come crushing down.

I love the comments on youtube:

"chloe is a very beautiful women.shes not obese and she didnt just win cause she was the only big girl brave enough to enter.thats total bull**** and its so close minded and pig headed.its those chicks that are skinny skinny and even "average" that make me sick. you type of girls need to sit at the damn table and eat a steak.the only thing a skinny girl is good for is to jump out of a cake topless for your idiot buddys.idk if youve noticed but big women have tig ol bitties and skinnys pay 4 um.ha"
sounds like a bitter fat feminist to me.
 
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