Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
Jitterbug said:
my rebbattle to Amy is this : Shame on you! overweight women should not be admired and used as role models. She has chosen not to live a healthy lifestyle and as a result this obese individual will experience various health problems in the near future such as diabetes, heart problems and cancer. She is not content with herself rather she has accepted her situation without attempting to slim down. Overweightness is neither beautiful on the outside or healthy on the inside!
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.
I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.
Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules. Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.
Lived in the UK for two years. The only good looking women are the foreign ones.Francisco d'Anconia said:
I lived in London for a bit and you're right, the best looking women were the foreigners. I'll also agree that I had a great time hanging out at a pub with them. Wearing beer goggles helped a lot.AgonyUncle said:Lived in the UK for two years. The only good looking women are the foreign ones.
Nah, they have some very good looking women, just not in high quantity like the rest of Europe. Saying that, most are friendly and have a good sense of humour. I quite like English women in general. Pity they are not as hot as the Polish women who are invading the UK
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Everyone knows it's not their fault about their situation. Plus, who's to say that they aren't happy with themselves? Given a choice, who's to say that they wouldn't stay just the way they are?In Motion said:
Wow, I didn't realize she was that big until those pictures and the one where the photo is taken from the front with just her.DJDamage said:You can really size up the competition.....
http://www.dailymail.co.uk/pages/li...ews.html?in_article_id=557329&in_page_id=1773
I thought she was proud of her body?! why oh why she is the only one with a short dress that covers her thighs?!
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
