six months after breakup still fvcked up

[happyguy111]

hey everyone.

I know you must receive many such posts but i teally am at a loss as what to do.

the post will b a very big one so i will kust give the main points.

*went to settle in a new city last july.

*am good lookin(people have told me)

*within one month using some guides here
got around 6-7 girls contacts.

*wanted to game a hb6. she had a bf. but still i went for her.

*got her eating out of my hands.

*then she asked me if i was serious abt the relation as she considered me a player.

*against my gut i fell in love with her and continued the 'seroous' relationship.

*stopped contact wit other girls

*things went downhill. i kept on falling for her drama etc.

*the fact tht she still hadnt broken with her long distance bf bugged me.

*thwn she asked me if i would marry her.
i agreed.

*2weeks later she tels me shes not sure etc

*i felt angry betrayed hurt.

*she broke up wit me. and i was fvcked to say the least.

*left the job.

*got another girl . she also had a bf.

*we fvcked like rabbits for a week then she also broke wit me. again i was hurt.

*the thing is i m missing my first girl like crazy. dont knw why.

*am depressed as fvck for 6months.(breakups with both happened in nov and dec)
*don knw wht to do.

*right nw gym is the only thing keeping me alive.

*i feel very hurt and overall butt hurt in general.

*cant concentrate on studies or anything else. just think abt all the goid times we had.

plz provide me the right tools to come out of this.

 

[Hustlaz Ambition]

hey everyone.

I know you must receive many such posts but i teally am at a loss as what to do.

the post will b a very big one so i will kust give the main points.

*went to settle in a new city last july.

*am good lookin(people have told me)

*within one month using some guides here
got around 6-7 girls contacts.

*wanted to game a hb6. she had a bf. but still i went for her.

*got her eating out of my hands.

*then she asked me if i was serious abt the relation as she considered me a player.

*against my gut i fell in love with her and continued the 'seroous' relationship.

*stopped contact wit other girls

*things went downhill. i kept on falling for her drama etc.

*the fact tht she still hadnt broken with her long distance bf bugged me.

*thwn she asked me if i would marry her.
i agreed.

*2weeks later she tels me shes not sure etc

*i felt angry betrayed hurt.

*she broke up wit me. and i was fvcked to say the least.

*left the job.

*got another girl . she also had a bf.

*we fvcked like rabbits for a week then she also broke wit me. again i was hurt.

*the thing is i m missing my first girl like crazy. dont knw why.

*am depressed as fvck for 6months.(breakups with both happened in nov and dec)
*don knw wht to do.

*right nw gym is the only thing keeping me alive.

*i feel very hurt and overall butt hurt in general.

*cant concentrate on studies or anything else. just think abt all the goid times we had.

plz provide me the right tools to come out of this.

WOAH you sound like a ****ing mess. Have you read the NO Contact/just got dumped guide on this forum? With statements like "the gym is the only thing keeping me alive" you sound like you are in serious condition.

 

[Vidrio]

Stop getting gfs. At this point you're still too beta to keep a gf without her treating you like sh!t. Time is the only thing that will help you. Go completely NC and don't initiate or respond to any form of contact she sends your way. Have some meaningless sex with girls you don't give a fvck about. Read the DJ Bible from front to back. Eventually you'll recover.

 

[JoeMarron]

You get gf's who are taken and then get butt hurt when they leave you. If you have a properly functioning brain it shouldn't take long to figure out what the problem is.

 

[rhythmic]

You are not ready for a quality woman. You need to find some level of inner peace dude.

1. Figure out what makes you happy.
2. Pursue it.
3. Read the DJ bible here. Take on board some key points, that:
women need to be left wanting more
you shouldn't submit to them
you definitely should never need them.
4. Know that you're gonna be fine, but you need to take control of things ASAP and get your **** together.

 

[bigneil]

hey everyone.

blah blah afc blah

plz provide me the right tools to come out of this.

The right tool is a ball peen hammer and a few gentle taps on the OP's skull.

For those who fall so "in love" (an undefined term used to describe the feeling of not getting enough) that they can't work/study - those chumps can't support a wife and family either, lest they perish from the elements as he whines. Women are trained over thousands of generations to detect such chumps - hence all their tests early on.

The OP is not a man yet, but road travel will season him.

 

[mikey2012]

Watch the movie Swingers. You are mikey