"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Situational Question

pitbullremix

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Hey guys,

I have a situation.

I met this girl recently, and we both kicked it off really well. We held very long eye contact and we just talked non-stop. The next time I saw her, we were at a social event. Again, she was very interested in me and we talked a lot. I did some kino and all was good.
To show that I am not too clingy and beta, I moved away from her during the social event to talk with other girls (and guys). Occasionally, I would go back to her and just hit it up again. The next day, there was a basketball game to go to, and she called me up to offer me her ticket since she didn't feel like going (or her friends left her, etc.)
I said I didn't feel like going either, and how about coming to my place to watch the game on tv. She was like wellll, i don't feel to well and im still kinda tired so i might sleep, etc.
I said cool, that's fine with me, I'll call you sometime next week.

Could I have handled this better?


Thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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pitbullremix

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...and do you think she has interest in me just from reading the description
 

sanyo7878

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sounds to me like you handled it perfectly. I would call her in a few days and ask how's she's feeling and ask her if she's up for getting together later that week or during the weekend.

As far as interest goes, she sounds interested to me. I would say that her excuse of wanting to sleep instead of going over to your house is legit. She was probably not feeling well.

Good luck brotha.
 

AbsolutBeirut

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I think you should have taken the ticket from her anyways. She was testing to see if you have a life of your own and that you don't need her to enjoy the game. You don't even have to go the game, she'll never know. You could put it aside or sell it to a friend.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

Read more...

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