"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Situational Question

pitbullremix

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Hey guys,

I have a situation.

I met this girl recently, and we both kicked it off really well. We held very long eye contact and we just talked non-stop. The next time I saw her, we were at a social event. Again, she was very interested in me and we talked a lot. I did some kino and all was good.
To show that I am not too clingy and beta, I moved away from her during the social event to talk with other girls (and guys). Occasionally, I would go back to her and just hit it up again. The next day, there was a basketball game to go to, and she called me up to offer me her ticket since she didn't feel like going (or her friends left her, etc.)
I said I didn't feel like going either, and how about coming to my place to watch the game on tv. She was like wellll, i don't feel to well and im still kinda tired so i might sleep, etc.
I said cool, that's fine with me, I'll call you sometime next week.

Could I have handled this better?


Thanks
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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pitbullremix

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...and do you think she has interest in me just from reading the description
 

sanyo7878

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sounds to me like you handled it perfectly. I would call her in a few days and ask how's she's feeling and ask her if she's up for getting together later that week or during the weekend.

As far as interest goes, she sounds interested to me. I would say that her excuse of wanting to sleep instead of going over to your house is legit. She was probably not feeling well.

Good luck brotha.
 

AbsolutBeirut

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I think you should have taken the ticket from her anyways. She was testing to see if you have a life of your own and that you don't need her to enjoy the game. You don't even have to go the game, she'll never know. You could put it aside or sell it to a friend.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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