Situational Pickup advice/techniques

[coolguy676767]

I would like to consider myself a DJ in training/progress. I have improved 10 fold over the past 6 months to a year but I still need a lot of help before I reach my full potential.

Ok so today I go looking for some campus apartments to move into coming this fall for college. So its me and about 4-5 guys that came along with me. The tour guide looked like a junior or senior at the campus and was damn hot spanish girl. Well naturally using what comes natural now that I have practiced enough I estabished the alpha male of the group. I was litterally the only one talking directly to her, I was making eye contact and holding it until she looked away after a few seconds, ect.

So I was playing it great, that part of my game is fine, becuase although I am not the best looking guy in the world, I am at least pretty decent and most people find me really funny in both a serious and slapstick kind of way depending on the situation.

Now here comes the dilemna. I could not find a way to seperate her from the pack, I wanted to number close but time ran out and everybody was being loud and in my way at the end. Now I did get her name on the way out and said I would be back soon, maybe within a week to do some paperwork. So here is my problem, I know how to set up the number close, but I dont know how to actually go through with it, without it seeming awkward or i am nervous. I know I have to be straightforward and I am not a shy guy so I guess all I need a just a small bit of information on how to phrase it, or how to lead into and and the proper timeing and such, and how to play off a rejection as well. Any advice on it would be appreciated.

 

[Synik]

Alright, you want to know how to number-close without the awkwardness. I think I have an idea... Next time, when you go to sign the paperwork, say, "hi, hello, what it do, etc." Fill out the paperwork and get all the apartment sh!t out of the way. Then, as you're leaving, pull out your handy mobile phone. As you begin to walk toward the door, say, "Hey, Young Latina, I might need some help with all of this, what's your number? You know... Just in case of an emergency (DJ smile)."

If she gives you her number:

"Thanks, hopefully, I won't have much trouble (Smile again)."

If she doesn't give you her number:

"Whoa (Laugh)! I didn't mean your number. I meant the office number (Laugh again). I'm more into blondes (smile)."

Either way, it'll be a fun experience and another step in the right direction. It's all about timing and the more practice you get, the better your timing will become. Good luck playboy.

-Synik

 

[coolguy676767]

Thanks man, that is a great idea, thats exactly what I was looking for.

Basically I technique I can use more than once in different situations, but change it up and play it by ear according to the DJ style, which is basically what its all about. Taking basic principles and adapting the to the situation.

Thanks a bunch, and I am glad, becuase for some reason these boards seem to be dieing, nobody really answers anybody's questions anymore.