"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Hey,

I've recently hooked up with an old school friend I haven't seen for years as I have moved to his local area. I suspect that we will continue to see each other from now on and be mates again.

Now, seperate to this I have also met his ex-girlfriend after not seeing her for a few years too. She has indicated to some of my friends that she wants a casual relationship with me. I'm going to say no, because as tempting as it is to give her a good seeing to, and although she split up with my mate over a year ago, I don't think it is worth it. I think it is more important to build a friendship with my mate again and banging his ex isnt going to help. Interested to hear what you guys think...

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"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Forget the "this girl told her friends" crap. What are you, 12? How do you know this chick is interested at all? Do you ever talk to her? If not, it's gossip. If so, see for yourself if she's interested.
 
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OK I didn't make it all that clear, she does want something with me, all the signs were there and she has been texting me today.
 
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Depends on your relationship with the guy.

I'd cut my balls off with a serrated knife before I'd bang a mates ex. If they're proper mates then they've earnt that loyalty.

If your not that close to the guy, I'd start nailing his ex pronto.
 
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Well, no I'm not close to him really. Haven't seen him for about 8 years and when I used to know him, I wouldn't have called him a close friend. Although potentially now I can build a friendship with him again since we are living local to each other. So do I go for the casual sex laid out on a plate for me and possibly jeopardise a potential friendship? <scratches head>
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So do I go for the casual sex laid out on a plate for me and possibly jeopardise a potential friendship? <scratches head>
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Hmmm. . . . <scratches armpit> yeah, that's a real tough call <scratches a$$>. . . . Hmmm

Disfunktional, could you just read your own last post again, and pretend it was written by somebody else? What's the first answer that comes to mind?
 
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