Situation with a girl friend

[Bettis76]

I have been friends with this HB 8.5 for around a year now. At first she was giving me STRONG signals, and always hinting that she wanted me, but I just didn't feel that way towards her. However, in the past month I've became very attracted to her. Obviously, I haven't told her how I feel and still act as if I am not attracted to her.

We have flirted heavily via text msgs and IMs for weeks, but it doesn't get any farther then that. I have also started acting as a jerk, and not a nice guy around her. Some days she seems to ignore me, and othertimes she seems to be interested in me, but she is very hard to read. I am beginning to think that she simply gave up on me and moved on to someone else. During one of our conversations she asked me what kind of women I liked and playfully insisted that she would set me up with someone, and in another one she even said that we would make a good couple, but it was hard to see if she was joking or serious. What would have been a proper response?

Any advice or should I just keep her as a friend?

 

[KarmaSutra]

I have been friends with this HB 8.5 for around a year now. At first she was giving me STRONG signals, and always hinting that she wanted me, but I just didn't feel that way towards her. However, in the past month I've became very attracted to her. Obviously, I haven't told her how I feel and still act as if I am not attracted to her.

We have flirted heavily via text msgs and IMs for weeks, but it doesn't get any farther then that. I have also started acting as a jerk, and not a nice guy around her. Some days she seems to ignore me, and othertimes she seems to be interested in me, but she is very hard to read. I am beginning to think that she simply gave up on me and moved on to someone else. During one of our conversations she asked me what kind of women I liked and playfully insisted that she would set me up with someone, and in another one she even said that we would make a good couple, but it was hard to see if she was joking or serious. What would have been a proper response?

Any advice or should I just keep her as a friend?

Are you in internet love with this girl? If so declare your undying admiration for her heart and then wuss out. Sounds like you're catching a slight case of One-itis already.

Otherwise you're going to have to get some sac and look for some other poon.

 

[flexion_]

After a year, yes she has given up on you. Too late. You are in the friendzone.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

I have been friends with this HB 8.5 for around a year now. At first she was giving me STRONG signals, and always hinting that she wanted me, but I just didn't feel that way towards her. However, in the past month I've became very attracted to her. Obviously, I haven't told her how I feel and still act as if I am not attracted to her.

We have flirted heavily via text msgs and IMs for weeks, but it doesn't get any farther then that. I have also started acting as a jerk, and not a nice guy around her. Some days she seems to ignore me, and othertimes she seems to be interested in me, but she is very hard to read. I am beginning to think that she simply gave up on me and moved on to someone else. During one of our conversations she asked me what kind of women I liked and playfully insisted that she would set me up with someone, and in another one she even said that we would make a good couple, but it was hard to see if she was joking or serious. What would have been a proper response?

Any advice or should I just keep her as a friend?

Have you even asked her out on a date? It seems like all the communication between you do has been distant via cell phone and internet. Ask her if she wants to go somewhere on a friday night... Then you will know.

 

[Macgyver]

It's pretty much over buddy. ONE YEAR, my god. I would never hang around a girl for that long period especially talking to her every single week without ANY focking action. Give it up, MOVE ON!

If you REALLY REALLY want to be with her. Cut all contact, ignore her. If she contacts you, keep it brief. But do not sound all so goody goody to talk to her. I don't think it'll work, but you never know.

 

[Bettis76]

F*CK, I have caught oneitis. And, she is really ignoring me now and not even initiating conversation anymore. The problem is that I take the same class with her a few days a week, so I can't fully not think of her.

I guess my best option now is to just get more numbers and try to get rid of this oneitis.

 

[girlsarecrazy]

Def. find a replacement quickly!

 

[Obsidian]

lol