"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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situation - what to do?

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FBA808

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girl has boyfriend, but not real happy with him, flirts a lot with me. do i keep flirting along, or do i tell her look you got a boyfriend i'm not just gonna entertain you when he's not around, talk to me if you break up?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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do whatever you wish, as long as you're prepared to reap what you sew.
 
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You can make a move on her while she still has a boyfriend. Just don't expect loyalty or a trusting relationship. Might still be a fun bang though.
 
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