"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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situation, what to do?

Bryce556

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okay so i have gotten myself into this weird situation, i find it ironic cause only a little while ago i was begging to get any girls at all now with my DJ skills i have messed it up a bit.

So heres what happened got this girls number and she invited me over to her house to hang out, girl 1 was hot but had a bf, she had a friend over and i sorta DJ'ed both of them , now girl 1 said she likes me more then her bf, broke up with her boyfriend.

Now Girl 2 likes me alot also

I made out with Girl 1 a few times but right before she broke up with her boyfriend cause he saw us kissing. Now I made out with girl 2 several times too, then got almost to sex with her, no clothing and all. Girl 1 knows this happened, but before girl 1 said she dident care cause we wentnt going out yet but wanted to go out with me after she broke up with her bf.

Now Girl 1 has no boyfriend but will not go out with me because girl 1 says girl 2 is in love with me and girl 2 is her friend and she cant do that to her.

Now I like Girl 1 more then Girl 2, but they both like me. what do I do?? A threesome would be my ultimate dream but Im only at the point where i can get girls to be attrated to me, no idea how to do that yet. o also had girl 1 in only underwear around me too took off her bra to change infront of me once too.

so overall what to do? who do i go for?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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john paul

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Threesome!!! Think they would be game for it?

You gotta get in those same situations as before with the making out and removal of the clothes. The only difference is that it needs to happen with both of them there.
 

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It depends on what you are looking for. If you just looking for some fun, keep messing around with both of them while you can.

If you are looking for a relationship, I would go with Girl 2 based on the limited information you've given. Reason being, if Girl 1 left her boyfriend for you (and rather easily it seems), she could be prone to do it again, only next time you'd be the boyfriend she is leaving for some other dude. Though this doesn't apply if your not looking for anything real serious.
 

Bryce556

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im not really looking for anything serious with either of them. i did get them both to makeout with each other for like a few min on a dare though:p and they kept it up throughout the night. how do u go about arranging a threesome?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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