"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Situation - What do you do?

G-Theory

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Ok, here's the situation:

You're talking to your buddy one day about starting a business so you decide that you are gonna hit up the local library for some info on running an international sweat shop. You walk in through the doors heat automatically blasts you in the face. You're walking around, just perusing when you see a HB9 flipping through books in the feminist section. You want to approach, but is she a crazy psycho b!tch or just studying up for that class her friends talked her into taking? What do you do?



G-Theory
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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The worst any woman can do is say no... Go over, strike up small talk to feel her out and get some rapport built up, then if she doesn't seem too militant about feminism, ask her for her digits.
 

Francisco d'Anconia

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And guess what?? You can also do this with women who you may think is interested in other things. You can do this with women who may be doctors, waitresses and lawyers. It also works with women who are shorter than you plus women who aren't wearing the same color clothes as you! Yes, believe it or not you can find out the basic character of any woman once you approach her!!!
 

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Don't judge a book by its cover.

ps I don't think your going to find the "Opening a sweat shop book for Dummies" at your local library. Its not exactly a chronicled business. Furthermore if you did find out how to do it, your going to need the right contacts which are not going to be in the yellow pages.
 

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LMAO!

This is a 'What If' scenario. It's a little humorous while at the same time makes a DJ sit down, visualize, and think about how he would approach. It's similar to the visualization exercises professional athletes undertake before their performance.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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