"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Jake_tha_Boss

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alrite so im gamin this female, lets call her AB lindsay, get this she has a bf but im still bringin her towards my side if u feel me haha, well the other day her boyfriend came into class an sat down an was talkin to her, so i jus started talkin to the other chick in my class (3 people an im the only dude its ****in awesome) then outta the corner of my eye i see her bf try to get her to kiss him she turned his ass down, LMFAO, an today she was talkin to me an the convo went like this:
her: so tell me, what are your intentions, like what are u lookin for?
me: well u see, right now im jus livin life an doin my thing, all im really lookin for is a cool chick to ride along wit me
her: oh, but u kno i got a boyfriend right?
me: yea, hes a punk
her: why do u say that?
me: cuz he aint me lol
man, how i came to were i am now with my game an ****, all it really took was for me to truly understand the following statement:
I don't give a f*ck!
seriously, if ur paranoid of being rejected, or any other fears u may have ur answer is as simple as sayin f*ck it
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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