"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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moneyisking

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It's gona be sad... yep;

Well, I will be straight. I can't even meet a girl and get in as "romantic" relationship. I go to parties and have lots of cool friends, but in the end, I am always the one losing competition and coming back home alone. I don't know if that's b/c I am minority, but that's no excuse.

I did all sorts of sh!t to get chicks. I bought books, read and read, asked girls out who flaked on me, it seems like no matter what I do, I never get girls man. I mean, Napoleon Dynamite in real life would be pretty pathetic, but I be about the same as him b/c I don't get girls either ways.

I tried to be an a$$hole for a while, tried to be good (not nice) guy for a while, tried being me and not caring for a while, tried being a fun person, tried being a mean jerk. I basically tried everything to find out how to be an attractive person, but I still don't know how to attract chicks, and I still don't get it. I just don't get it. I don't understand how some dudes meet a girl at random place and fvck them within 24 hr period. I just have no clue.

So... am I doomed? I went to party yesterday and still came back alone. I want to be able to seduce those b!tches like my bad azz friends or my real brother, but I am just clueless. I feel so fvcking pathetic. I don't want to b!tch anymore and this sh!tty feeling will go away later, but my incompetence will still remain and I still won't get chicks. What the fvck should I do? As of now, I hate this world, me, and just want to be mean and fvcking feel angry. This won't help, but you guys can. Help...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I've been watching your progress young sensei. You think you are failing but you are actually succeeding every time you keep fighting and you are way ahead of 80% of men ( statistical guess lol). I could write a long winded post on what you should do but i'll just cut to the chase and give you the secret to being an alpha male........


''You can have full blown conversations with other people using only just your eyes and mind and without saying a word''.


Oh by the way im a minority as well if thats any consolation to you .

Yup thats it! print this post out and stick it on your wall. Study it, ask people about what it means ,study it again. If you don't still 'get it'; when you finally start bangin chicks you will realise what i was talking about.

Anyway im off to start a thread thats my christmas present to sosuave, this was yours.........



Merry christmas
 
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moneyisking, you post here every few weeks with the exact same problems, only reworded. You've also been given a ****load of advice from those threads. Have you earnestly applied any of the previous tips? You haven't been persistent, I think. If you were pesistent, you wouldn't be posting up the same issues 10 days later. There is no magic bullet; change doesn't happen overnight. You have to read, learn and then APPLY what you've read and learnt. And when I say 'apply', I don't mean try it 2 times then quit -- this stuff takes TIME. Keep at it. You can quit and get nothing, or keep trying and eventually get something (just don't make pvssy your life goal).

Oh, one more thing, do get yourself FILMED at some social gathering (e.g. party) and play it back and watch yourself. Often people think they're all this and all that, but when they see actual 3rd-person footage of their behaviour and interactions with others they pick up on their faults. It's worth trying, man.
 
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