"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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moneyisking

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It's gona be sad... yep;

Well, I will be straight. I can't even meet a girl and get in as "romantic" relationship. I go to parties and have lots of cool friends, but in the end, I am always the one losing competition and coming back home alone. I don't know if that's b/c I am minority, but that's no excuse.

I did all sorts of sh!t to get chicks. I bought books, read and read, asked girls out who flaked on me, it seems like no matter what I do, I never get girls man. I mean, Napoleon Dynamite in real life would be pretty pathetic, but I be about the same as him b/c I don't get girls either ways.

I tried to be an a$$hole for a while, tried to be good (not nice) guy for a while, tried being me and not caring for a while, tried being a fun person, tried being a mean jerk. I basically tried everything to find out how to be an attractive person, but I still don't know how to attract chicks, and I still don't get it. I just don't get it. I don't understand how some dudes meet a girl at random place and fvck them within 24 hr period. I just have no clue.

So... am I doomed? I went to party yesterday and still came back alone. I want to be able to seduce those b!tches like my bad azz friends or my real brother, but I am just clueless. I feel so fvcking pathetic. I don't want to b!tch anymore and this sh!tty feeling will go away later, but my incompetence will still remain and I still won't get chicks. What the fvck should I do? As of now, I hate this world, me, and just want to be mean and fvcking feel angry. This won't help, but you guys can. Help...
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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YAboi

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I've been watching your progress young sensei. You think you are failing but you are actually succeeding every time you keep fighting and you are way ahead of 80% of men ( statistical guess lol). I could write a long winded post on what you should do but i'll just cut to the chase and give you the secret to being an alpha male........


''You can have full blown conversations with other people using only just your eyes and mind and without saying a word''.


Oh by the way im a minority as well if thats any consolation to you .

Yup thats it! print this post out and stick it on your wall. Study it, ask people about what it means ,study it again. If you don't still 'get it'; when you finally start bangin chicks you will realise what i was talking about.

Anyway im off to start a thread thats my christmas present to sosuave, this was yours.........



Merry christmas
 
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moneyisking, you post here every few weeks with the exact same problems, only reworded. You've also been given a ****load of advice from those threads. Have you earnestly applied any of the previous tips? You haven't been persistent, I think. If you were pesistent, you wouldn't be posting up the same issues 10 days later. There is no magic bullet; change doesn't happen overnight. You have to read, learn and then APPLY what you've read and learnt. And when I say 'apply', I don't mean try it 2 times then quit -- this stuff takes TIME. Keep at it. You can quit and get nothing, or keep trying and eventually get something (just don't make pvssy your life goal).

Oh, one more thing, do get yourself FILMED at some social gathering (e.g. party) and play it back and watch yourself. Often people think they're all this and all that, but when they see actual 3rd-person footage of their behaviour and interactions with others they pick up on their faults. It's worth trying, man.
 
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