Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Situation in College

baseballa25

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I'm 19, a Soph in college. Coming into this year I had just got out of a long relationship, had a messy breakup the first weekend of the school year. The next couple weekend I fooled around with a few girls, just enjoying myself. However, out of the blue, a girl that I knew of who I think is smooooking hot comes up to me at a party and chats, asks how summer went and all that bull****. I was somewhat shocked to say the least.

Then a couple days later she chatted me on Facebook saying hey. We started talking and so on and so forth. We were texting all the time and hanging out here and there watching a movie at her place (she lives in a sorority house, I live in a frat house). I like this girl because she is for one, freaking gorgeous, and two, is very chill and low maintenance. But, she is almost so low maintenance she's high maintenance.

Fast forward a week or two of talking and hanging out and I stay over at her place. We have sex, we have a few times now, and we both do like each other. She has had me meet both of her parents, both who like me very much.

The weird thing is here is she always tells me how I'm not the normal guy she goes for, as her type is the bad boy type. I'm not a ***** by any means, but I'm not some bad ass. I am confident and funny and treat girls right. She tells me she likes a challenge, and that she does like me. We're both just going with the flow right now, seeing what happens.

I do really like this girl, so I don't want to **** this up. What are your guys' suggestions with having to deal with the whole bad-boy thing and how should I carry myself through these next couple of weeks?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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HolyG

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Sprinkle in a little bit of assh0le every now and then (i.e. start an argument) with her. Your c0ck will thank you later.
 
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