"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Situation in College

baseballa25

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I'm 19, a Soph in college. Coming into this year I had just got out of a long relationship, had a messy breakup the first weekend of the school year. The next couple weekend I fooled around with a few girls, just enjoying myself. However, out of the blue, a girl that I knew of who I think is smooooking hot comes up to me at a party and chats, asks how summer went and all that bull****. I was somewhat shocked to say the least.

Then a couple days later she chatted me on Facebook saying hey. We started talking and so on and so forth. We were texting all the time and hanging out here and there watching a movie at her place (she lives in a sorority house, I live in a frat house). I like this girl because she is for one, freaking gorgeous, and two, is very chill and low maintenance. But, she is almost so low maintenance she's high maintenance.

Fast forward a week or two of talking and hanging out and I stay over at her place. We have sex, we have a few times now, and we both do like each other. She has had me meet both of her parents, both who like me very much.

The weird thing is here is she always tells me how I'm not the normal guy she goes for, as her type is the bad boy type. I'm not a ***** by any means, but I'm not some bad ass. I am confident and funny and treat girls right. She tells me she likes a challenge, and that she does like me. We're both just going with the flow right now, seeing what happens.

I do really like this girl, so I don't want to **** this up. What are your guys' suggestions with having to deal with the whole bad-boy thing and how should I carry myself through these next couple of weeks?
 

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Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

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HolyG

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Sprinkle in a little bit of assh0le every now and then (i.e. start an argument) with her. Your c0ck will thank you later.
 
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