Situation I need help with.

[Fvrthebrave]

So the other night I had a girl over. She has a boyfriend which threw me off because I know how ****ty it feels to be cheated on/left for someone else. Because of this, I didn't make any moves, instead we just talked about a bunch of ****. She ended up staying until around 4 am, which was weird for a girl with a boyfriend. She also brought her boyfriend up but she didn't have anything positive to say about him. The weirdest thing that confused me was, sometime during the night, she took out a water bottle filled with vodka and mixed it with a soda I had given her... I was so tired I was like, "why the **** is this girl watering down her coke?" but the question is, did she want to get drunk or some ****?

Keep in mind I am 19 and she is 18, I was really confused by the situation and now if we talk to eachother it seems like she really isn't interested in me. I may be over thinking this but it was flat out weird to me. I felt like I ****ed the night up by not doing anything, literally anything. So the main question is... did I **** up?

 

[Pimp-sicle]

Short and to the point here:

1) Yes you fuvked up big time

2) She's looking to move on from her bf and secure the next branch

3) Branch = you

4) you = penis in her mouth

5) failure to excute the plan now has her feeling:

a) your not into her or don't find her attractive

b) your clueless


6) She will be looking for the new branch as you read this



Lastly, there is still a way for you to still hit it and that is for you to invite her over again. Flirt a bit and start escalating, maybe watch a movie and then start being a man and make a move...


Good luck





PIMP

 

[Fvrthebrave]

Well she will be over again soon so its not a problem. Thanks man

 

[PDubb75]

The problem with the situation you described is summed up perfectly by something I heard on this forum. You were her emotional tampon. By simply talking to her, and listening her, you became this thing sitting across from her soaking up her words. And that's it.

Hell yeah it sucks for a guy when a girl cheats on him, or leaves him for someone. But do you expect her to like you when your actions show that you care more about his feelings than hers and your own combined? Either she doesn't care about him, or he f*cked up. Either way, not your problem.

Come on, man. Shes complaining about her guy, getting herself drunk, and staying until 4 am and you don't make a move? If I was gay, I think I still would have made a move with how inviting she made it.

Shes not sounding interested now because she didn't get the response she wanted the first time. It's probably not a lost cause, but you need to be careful now. If you act drastically different than the first night, she might not be too receptive. Might take some extra work.